"We seldom get into trouble when we speak softly. It is only when we raise our voices that the sparks fly and tiny molehills become great mountains of contention."
Everyone with a smart
phone or tablet has apps that get used more than others. There are
four that I find myself using often for my family. They help me find
good media, know where everyone is, and keep them reading. So here
are my favorite family apps in no particular order.
Kids-In-Mind:
This app, designed for iPad and iPhone, will give you an opinion-free
analysis of movies and videos. There are no reviews either condemning
or praising the movie. It is an emotion-free report so that you can
decide whether you think the movie is worth watching.
I
like this approach because even parent reviews vary widely in their
interpretation of what is appropriate. By reading the lists of
specific instances you will know exactly what is in the film and can
make a more informed decision.
We
use the free version, which allows you to see what is in recent
releases, movies new to video, and an archive of more than 3,000
older movies. You can search by app ratings, theater ratings, or by
title. Many of the older movies I searched for were not in the
database, but the majority of what I’m looking for is there.
The
paid version ($1.99) is ad-free, allows you to save a list of
favorites, and offers a year of new movie reviews.
Each
report contains a summary and includes a list of incidents for three
categories:
Sex/nudity
Violence/gore
Profanity
Based
on the number and severity of instances in the film, each category is
rated from 1-10. These are pretty in-depth and some lists can be
quite long. As a simple example, a G-rated movie might have a rating
of 1.3.2, meaning there are may be things like (1) kissing or
innuendo, (3) falling down stairs, face slaps, yelling, and property
damage, (2) anatomical references, name-calling, and a religious
exclamation.
Instances
are briefly described, and while names of characters are not in the
description, you may uncover some spoilers by reading through it.
Kids Media:
This is a free app offered for iPhone, iPad, and Android. You will find
reviews of movies, apps, games, TV shows, books, music, and apps for
learning. Each review offers a suggested age between 5+ and 17+. I
have often found that I disagree with the age suggestion though.
Each
of the following categories is ranked from 1-5 without specifics on
why it is given that rating:
Positive Messages
Violence
Language
Positive Role Models
Sex
Consumerism
Drinking, Drugs & Smoking
I
have found that the reviews should be considered carefully since they
tend to give opinions with words like good, charming, strange, fun,
poignant, or terrible, and may not reflect what you value for your
family. Parent and kid reviews can be submitted but aren’t
always helpful as the same PG-13 movie reviewed by parents can say
everything from, “I watched this with my 10-year-old and we
loved it!” to “This was a disgusting movie that should
have been rated R.”
A
useful feature is the option to make a file for each of your children
with the age range you feel is most appropriate for them. By just
tapping “Picks for My Kids” then on their picture, you
can scroll through the suggested media options. You can also search
by age range without using a child file.
What
I like most about this app are the “Best Lists” for all
sorts of categories. Some examples are: Travel movies, Books
turned to movies, Movies with incredible role models, Apps for
toddlers, Common Core-friendly apps, TV Dads we love, Fitness TV,
Funny books, Books for reluctant readers, Non-violent video games,
Facebook games for teens, and Websites that help kids do good.
I
have found many suggestions helpful and discovered things I would not
have come across on my own.
Find My Friends:
This is a free app offered for iPhone and iPad. It allows you to see
the location on a map of any person’s device who has given you
permission to track them, so if the person has the device with them,
you will know where that person is.
My
family jokingly refers to this as “the stalker app,” but
it isn’t really because you cannot follow anyone’s
location without approval. It’s great when you want to know
where someone is or, if a device is stolen, where it is.
The
only “friends” I follow now are my husband and children.
I have not had much need to branch out beyond that. You can also
follow friends or extended family for a brief period of time, like a
vacation, which can be handy. I use this when I want to know if my
husband left work yet, or when I want to check where my kids are when
away from home.
There
is also a “Notify Me” option if you don’t want to
constantly check the app but want to know when your husband is on his
way home so you can have dinner ready or if your child arrived safely
at the mall, for instance. The app will send you a message when that
person leaves or arrives at the location you indicate.
When
setting this up on the kids’ phones you can keep them from
turning off their location by going to password protected parental
controls in Settings >Restrictions >Location Services >Don’t
Allow Changes.
BookScanner:
This app is for iPhone and iPad and costs $1.99. The cost is a real
bargain because we use this app all the time. It is designed to
complement the Accelerated Reader program that my kids use at school.
Their
teachers require that they read books on their own and then take a
quiz on the computer at school to see if they understood it. The app
is also useful for anyone wanting to find books at the correct
reading level for their child.
It
is a pretty simple app. You open it and tap “Scan Barcode.”
Then you use the camera to scan the barcode on the back of the book.
The only books we have had trouble finding in here are those that are
part of a collection like Children’s Illustrated Classics,
for example.
A
picture of the cover of the book will pop up on your screen along
with the Title, Author, AR Quiz #, Word Count, Reading Level, Points
(possible points available when you take the quiz), and Interest
Level (such as lower, middle, or upper grades).
Amy Stevenson grew up in central California but ventured to Utah to receive a bachelor's degree
in human development from Brigham Young University. She has been using her degree every
day since then as a stay-at-home-mom to her son and three daughters.
She believes that parenting is more than telling children, "Be good!" It is about surrounding
ourselves with good things, and then acting in a way that reflects the good we have found. She
has always enjoyed discovering how people become who they are and has a blog where she
shares clean, good, uplifting ideas and resources for children and families in hopes of helping
them become their best selves.
Along with her husband and children she has lived in nine different cities in three states, which
has taught her that people are good everywhere and there is something to learn from every
experience. She and her family now live in Simi Valley, California -- and hope to stay there.
Amy serves as a ward missionary and teaches the gospel principles class.