Editor's note: Cyndie Swindlehurst is still enjoying a well-deserved
vacation, but just in case cleaning your closet is on your New Year's
resolution list, here's her excellent advice on how to do it:
Question:
My
closet is a disaster. It is quite literally knee-deep in stuff. I
don’t even know what is in there anymore, but I need to clean
it out because I don’t have anything to wear. Also, I know it
bothers my husband.
Where
do I start?
Answer:
You
start by making your bed.
That’s
how almost any task starts.
Why?
Because once your bed is made, you are a responsible, civilized
person whose day is off to a great start. You have accomplished
something that can be viewed with pride and admired. It is a boost to
your self-worth: You are now the kind of person who makes his bed.
All that uplift from two minutes of work!
Also,
a neatly made bed is a good work surface.
The
second thing you should do is clear your schedule. Give yourself lots
of time — say, five hours. If you have little kids who need
food and tending, let them watch movies while you work. One day of
movies will not irreparably damage their brains. Take a break at
lunchtime to feed them. If you have a child who is both capable and
willing to help, wonderful. If not, that’s fine, too.
Third,
gather your tools. You will need a box of trash bags (kitchen bags or
the big black ones), your laundry hampers, the vacuum, and lots of
hangars. Take out two bags: one for trash, the other for donations.
You
may also like to put on some music. I love to listen to audiobooks
while cleaning, but not while organizing. If your closet is full of
unknown stuff that needs to be sorted, evaluated, and put away, you
will need your whole brain. So stick to familiar music.
Fourth,
clear the floor around your closet door such that the door will open.
If there is a mound of clothing, mail, books, etc. blocking the door,
clean it up. Dirty clothes should be sorted into laundry loads.
Books, hairbrushes, mail, and other items should be put away.
Clean
clothes should be folded and put away, or hung. (You can keep the
clothes that belong in the closet in a neat pile or hanging on a door
frame until the closet is available.)
Trash
should be thrown away. When you have a full trash bag, take it out to
the big trash can or Dumpster. When you have a full donation bag, go
put it in your car.
Once
the floor is clear, vacuum it. Things will be looking better already!
Admire your work, get a drink of water, check on the kids, and smile
at your clean, clear floor.
Fifth,
open your closet door. Survey the contents with a determined eye. Say
to yourself, “I can do this. I will start at the top of the
pile and take care of one item at a time.”’
Sixth,
thus buoyed, take an item off the top of the pile. Identify it: neck
tie, shoe, bill, etc. Ask whether you need to keep it: Is the necktie
stained? Does the shoe fit? Is the bill three years old?
If
the item is trash — too old, too worn, too ratty — throw
it away. If the item is in good condition but you don’t need or
want it, put it in your donation bag. If the item belongs in the
closet and can be hung, hang it now. If it needs to be folded, fold
it and put it on the bed with other like items. If it belongs
elsewhere, put it away.
Let’s
talk about “put it away.” As you go through your
overflowing closet, you will undoubtedly find items that have no home
and have therefore been chucked into the closet. First consider
whether you need to keep the item. Will you ever use it? Will you
ever sew it? Will you ever consign it?
Don’t
let yourself drown in unrealized plans! You have better things to do
than worry about selling a five dollar item on Craigslist. Just
donate it! If you feel bad every time you see the unfinished flannel
board Nativity, just get rid of it!
If
you decide to keep an item, you need to find a home for it. To do
that, ask yourself, “Where do I use this item?” Then put
the item where you will use it.
Bills,
for example, should go near the place you pay them. Toys should be in
the play area. Craft or sewing supplies should be gathered into a
bag, bin, or basket if you don’t have a dedicated sewing area.
Pens, pencils, and scissors can go in a mug or drawer.
Remember,
though, that closet-cleaning day is not the day to also
organize your bills, toys, or sewing supplies. Put these items where
they belong, but don’t spend time organizing or rearranging
them.
Seventh,
repeat step six until the closet is clear. This will probably take
several hours and a lot of thought and effort. Drink water and feed
the children as necessary. When you are done, vacuum the floor and
dust the baseboards.
As
you work, weed out your clothing. I have a lot of sympathy for the
wardrobe complications that come with a waistline that fluctuates in
size; it’s not necessary to throw away everything you haven’t
worn in a year — who knows what next year will bring?
But
I do recommend this magical question: Even if this item fit
perfectly, would I wear it?
Lots
of clothing can be eliminated with this question. Things that are
faded, torn, misshapen, stained, or pilled. Dingy whites. Worn out
elastic or Lycra blends that look like they have stretch marks.
Things that never were flattering. Things that are no longer age
appropriate. Great bargains that you never really liked and never
actually wore. Let it go. Let it all go.
Make
room in your life for clothes that fit without fidgeting. For clothes
of flattering hue. For clothes without holes. By all means, mow the
lawn in old jeans. But when you are not mowing the lawn, wear
something decent. Don’t hang around all day in grubby pajamas —
give yourself a boost and put on something respectable. Clothes are
for wearing. Don’t save them for special occasions.
Eighth,
arrange your closet. First arrange the hanging items, by color or
style or however you like. Then replace the folded items on the
shelves, keeping like items together. The things you use most should
be the easiest to reach. For example, put church skirts in the front
of the closet, but a satin special-occasion skirt at the back. Put
jeans on the middle shelf, but Christmas sweaters on the top shelf.
At
this point, after you have pruned your wardrobe and returned it to
your closet, you can consider whether closet organizers would help
you. Hanging shelves for shoes and sweaters are terrific if you need
more floor or shelf space. Fabric bins and cloth baskets can store
slips and nylons. But you should only consider these items after
you see what you have and how it fits in the closet. Until you have
done your pruning, the only closet organizer you need is a trash bag.
Ninth,
take all trash out to the trash can. Put all donations in your car.
Put a load of laundry in the washer.
Tenth,
admire your work. Say out loud to yourself, “Wow. This looks
amazing. I worked really hard on this, and it looks great.” Let
your family members admire your work. Do not say, “Wow. I have
a masters degree in biochemistry, and this is how I spent my day.”
Anyone, of any worldly accomplishment, can be proud of a tidy
closet.
Finally,
maintenance.
Step
One: To keep your closet functional, do three things every day. One,
put things away — don’t toss homeless junk into your
closet. Two, put all dirty clothes in the hamper. Three, put away
clean clothes immediately.
Step
Two: Stop buying stuff! Don’t buy anything you don’t have
room for, don’t have a place for, and will not actually use.
Anything that will just end up clogging your closet should not be
brought into your house, no matter how wonderful it seems at the tag
sale.
If
you can do this, your closet won’t end up knee-deep in stuff
again.
Do
you have a quandary, conundrum, or sticky situation in your life?
Click this button to drop Cyndie a line, and she’ll be happy to
answer your question in a future column. Any topic is welcome!
Cynthia Munk Swindlehurst spent her childhood in New Hampshire and her
adolescence in San Diego. She served a mission in Manaus Brazil. She
graduated from Brigham Young University with a degree in English and from
Duke University with a law degree.
She practiced law until her first child was born. She enjoys reading, tap
dancing, and discussing current events. She and her husband live in
Greensboro, North Carolina with their two sons.
Cyndie serves as the Sunbeams teacher in her ward.