Conversion
stories abound in LDS culture, often involving conversion from
another Christian denomination. In a new 278-page memoir, Tito Momen
counts the cost of converting from Muslim to Christian and Latter-day
Saint as he recounts his life’s journey in My
Name Used to be Muhammed
(Shadow Mountain 2013, $21.99 in hardcover).
Born
in Nigeria to a strict Muslim family with a distant, abusive father
who was grooming this youngest son to be the imam
(village religious leader), the boy learned to read by copying every
word of the Qur’an. The book jacket gives away the fact that
Tito’s conversion led to 15 years in a harsh Egyptian prison.
Yet, it’s the journey
between boyhood and the prison term that is the meat of the narrative
produced by Jeff Benedict.
The
book is written for an audience that’s not just LDS; in fact,
Momen’s conversion process and baptism into The Church of Jesus
Christ of Latter-day Saints are barely mentioned. While the author
provides insights into the culture of Islam, more time and attention
are devoted to descriptions of the darker aspects of an isolated,
less-educated religious community where women must never show their
faces nor their affection for their children, and where punishment is
swift and harsh.
The
treatment Momen received from family, school, and government
officials as an “infidel” during his high school years in
Damascus and Cairo takes center stage in his story.
Although
the descriptions and experiences of his university years of drinking
and womanizing add contrast to Momen’s transition to Christian
and Mormon, they could have been told without quite so much graphic
detail. (If this were a movie, it would be PG-13; it’s most
certainly not for younger teens.)
The
place where this works better is in descriptions of prison life, with
torture, malnutrition, filth, and fear contrasted with small acts of
kindness that showed Momen “God was watching over me.”
(He managed to have a Bible and a Book of Mormon smuggled in because
of his ability to teach English to a notorious criminal.)
There
are some gripping moments. The reader can feel the sense of betrayal
along with Momen when his planned escape to Canada is foiled in
Spain, where authorities meet him as he departs the plane, detain him
for hours, then hurriedly escort him onto his “next flight”
—
right back to Cairo to face unjust charges and a life sentence.
Momen’s
reconciliation with his father as the older man is dying comes across
as tender and compassionate, underscored by Momen’s desire to
greet him on the other side with open arms that failed to embrace his
son in this life.
The
ending seems rather abrupt, stopping at Momen’s release from
prison in 2006 with congestive heart failure and his being exiled to
Ghana (which has a relatively large LDS population). It jumps from
there to his standing on Temple Square, leaving the reader to wonder
exactly how he got there and where he is now.
These
criticisms aside, My
Name Used to be Muhammed
is a compelling and faith-affirming book that reminds us that God
does hear and answer prayers.
Laurie
Williams Sowby has been writing since second grade and getting paid
for it since high school. Her byline ("all three names, please")
has appeared on more than 6,000 freelance articles published in
newspapers, magazines, and online.
A
graduate of BYU and a writing instructor at Utah Valley University
for many years, she proudly claims all five children and their
spouses as college grads.
She
and husband, Steve, have served three full-time missions together,
beginning in 2005 in Chile, followed by Washington D.C. South, then
Washington D.C. North, both times as young adult Institute teachers.
They are currently serving in the New York Office of Public and
International Affairs
During
her years of missionary service, Laurie has continued to write about
significant Church events, including the rededication of the Santiago
Temple by President Hinckley and the groundbreaking for the
Philadelphia Temple by President Eyring. She also was a Church
Service Missionary, working as a news editor at Church Magazines,
between full-time missions.
Laurie
has traveled to all 50 states and at least 45 countries (so far).
While home is American Fork, Utah, Lincoln Center and the
Metropolitan Museum of Art have provided a comfortable second home.
Laurie
is currently serving a fourth full-time mission with her husband in
the New York Office of Public and International Affairs. The two
previously served with a branch presidency at the Provo Missionary
Training Center. The oldest of 18 grandchildren have been called to
serve missions in New Hampshire and Brisbane, Australia.