A certain Geico
radio commercial features a family trying to find creative ways to
save on a family vacation. Rather than taking the kids to an
amusement park, which can “cost a fortune,” the parents
in the commercial get creative.
“To save some
money we thought, ‘Hey, let’s bring the amusement park to
us!’” says the mom.
“Step right up,
step right up young man!” bellows the dad. “Are you ready
to ride the wacky waterfall?”
“That’s
just the bathtub with the shower head running,” one of the
not-even-remotely-amused children retorts.
“Nope
it’s the wacky waterfall!”
“It’s
the shower, dad.”
“Waterfall…”
And
subsequently, with what I am fairly certain was nothing short of the
utmost love and admiration, my husband compared me with the parents
in this commercial.
I took it and wore it like a
badge of honor.
"Perhaps," I replied. "But the
difference is our children still believe in wacky waterfalls."
I
liken wacky waterfalls to the magical, essential and ever-fleeting
part of childhood known as imagination. And I have worked diligently
to lay a solid foundation for my kiddos that requires them to use
their imaginations, for I not only believe it is of great importance
to their early years, but will also help them throughout their
lives.
Take, for example, one very cold and snowy day last
winter. It started coming down on a Thursday evening and snowed clear
through Saturday morning, rendering a snow day from school that
Friday. By Friday afternoon, it was approaching blizzard-like
conditions at times and the snow was building fast. When the winds
surged, the snow came down sideways and was accumulating with rapid
speed. So I did what any good mother of a sound extreme northern
upbringing would do: I suggested we get outside and go for a walk.
Because I have one child in particular who has energy enough for the
entire neighborhood and thus effectively burning it is key to my
sanity. Plus, my northern-Minnesota family rule dictates that we can
go outside and play until about twenty degrees below zero; after
that, it just gets a bit too chilly.
So we dressed in
layers and bundled and then bundled some more. My husband was working
from home, allowing me to leave my toddler in his warm bed for a nap.
I stepped out into the canvas of white with my three oldest, who were
then 4, 6 and 8 years old.
The snow was really driving, and my
4-year-old turned whiny quicker than I could have caught a snowflake.
I thought fast, dug deep in desperation, and found a wacky waterfall
moment. I suggested we pretend to be a polar bear family on an arctic
adventure. My kids LOVE to play pretend, and were instantly hooked on
the idea. That was all it took. What I thought was going to be a
10-minute drudge through the drifts turned into a 90-minute snow
adventure. During our outing, we hunted for seals, stopped to rest in
snow dens, and enjoyed the occasional group polar bear huddle for
warmth. We ended our walk at the park, and for some reason we had the
place to ourselves. Here, the children magically transformed
themselves into penguins; in all their gear, they even
unintentionally gave the appearance of waddling up the steps, and
then, with the greatest of ease, went flying down the slick slide on
their tummies and into a waiting snow pile. And then, as children are
want to do, they slipped back into the polar bear façade and
created bear dens under big evergreen trees. It was fun –
really fun! And it gave the added bonus of the tiring effect I was
seeking to get us through what appeared to be a snowed-in
weekend.
When we got home, we warmed up with stove-top hot
cocoa and homemade marshmallows, my first attempt at homemade
marshmallows. Then we hauled out the play forts and the kids snuggled
down while I read some "Little House on the Prairie" to
them. We watched a movie, then make snow ice cream after dinner.
The
kids carried over the polar bear theme into the next day, and I was
amused at their continued creativity. They pretended to ride the
"Polar Bear Express,” have a polar bear campout where it's
"easy to get a great night's sleep” (they clearly borrowed
a Mattress King slogan), and called their polar bear parents ma and
pa (from “Little House on the Prairie”).
Two
full days of play fun, all from a desperate yet possibly inspired
idea to launch the polar bear arctic adventure. Proof once again that
if we parents can produce a spark of creativity to ignite their
imaginations, children have what it takes to make any experience all
the more magical and memorable. It sure beat days spent in front of
the Xbox.
In my heart of hearts, I know my children
won’t believe in arctic adventures or wacky waterfalls forever,
which is why I make the effort to capitalize on it while I
can.
Melissa Howell was born and raised in the woods of northern Minnesota. She has a degree in
journalism from the University of Minnesota.
As a single 20-something, she moved to Colorado seeking an adventure. She found one, first in
landing her dream job and then in landing her dream husband; four children followed.
Upon becoming a mother, she left her career in healthcare communications to be a stay-at-home
mom, and now every day is an adventure with her husband Brian and children Connor (9), Isabel
(6), Lucas (5) and Mason (2).
In addition, she is a freelance writer and communications consultant for a variety of
organizations.
Melissa serves as Assistant director of media relations for stake public affairs and Webelos den leader