"We seldom get into trouble when we speak softly. It is only when we raise our voices that the sparks fly and tiny molehills become great mountains of contention."
A
week or so ago, I was asked to give a talk on the Holy Ghost for a
convert baptism. I accepted the assignment and asked for guidance
through prayer. The verse that came to me was this: “Look
unto me in every thought; doubt not, fear not.”
It
came to my mind with music, actually, from a cassette recording that
is now lost, of musical settings to some of the scriptures from the
missionary discussions.
I
had to go find the scripture, knowing that it was early in the
Doctrine and Covenants, but not remembering exactly where. It’s
in section 6, verse 36, at the end. That section is counsel to
Oliver Cowdery. I began by reading it.
“Doubt
not.” Do we ever doubt? Of course we do. We all run into
doubts, and we all run into questions. Each of us will have those
times that set us back and make us wonder why. What should you never
doubt? That you have a Father in Heaven who knows you and loves you.
Are
there things you can’t answer? Bring them to Him, the
questions we don’t have answers for, and realize that we just
don’t have answers yet. The longer we continue in the
path set for us, the more experience we gain, the more we find those
answers.
A
baby learning to walk has been pulling up, hanging on, while
practicing moving those little feet along. That baby will stumble,
wobble, and fall over, but we clap and cheer for his efforts. He is
driven to get up on his feet and go; he doesn’t say, forget
about this, and give it up. He keeps working on it until he has
gained the strength and balance he needs, and he walks and then runs.
Pretty
soon it’s as if he never did anything else.
Spiritual
experience is the same way. As you receive the gift of the Holy
Ghost you may be a little uncertain at first, and you may wobble or
stumble over it at times. You have to learn to recognize and follow
those promptings and counsel. But that same impetus to learn and to
know our Father again drives us all forward, searching for truth. It
has brought you here to be baptized.
The
Church offers you friends who will clap and cheer for you, like that
little one. Wherever you go, you can walk into church and find a
home. There will be people who will be anchor points to you when you
need that, and someday you will be the one who is able to offer
strength to someone else who needs it.
One
of the apostles made an analogy about the Spirit. The truth is you
have to experience it to recognize it. He said it was like salt. If
you’ve never had salt, there’s no real way to describe
how it tastes; you just have to taste it for yourself.
You’ve
done that; you’ve felt the Spirit as you have studied with the
missionaries, and the Lord’s promise is that you can have that
same Spirit as a gift and companion in your own life. It is the very
same gift that the prophet and the apostles have been given; the gift
is not different in substance.
It
is the gift of the Holy Ghost, which is given to each one of us as we
are confirmed members of his church. You have the promise that in
your own life and stewardship you can be guided as fully as they are.
That’s wonderful to think about.
Moroni
promises that by the power of the Holy Ghost we may know the truth of
all things. All things — even things that aren’t
necessarily spiritual, but need to be answered in your own
circumstances. Bring all of your worries, troubles, and questions to
Him. He may not take them away, but he will bring you peace and
strength and carry you through whatever you may have to go through.
If
your heart tells you something your mind doesn’t know, you are
being taught by the Spirit. You can learn to rely on that gift.
Paul wrote to the Galatians, in Galatians 5:22 that “the fruit
of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness,
goodness, [and] faith.”
Those
are the effects that prove to you that you are on the right course.
Following the direction of the Holy Ghost will bring you peace,
patience, gentleness, and an increase in love. You will find joy.
“Look
unto me in every thought; doubt not, fear not.” Bring anything
that troubles your peace to your Father in Heaven. Do not forget
that you know in truth that He is there for you. Rely on the things
you have felt in your heart and spirit, and do not doubt that He is
real and that He loves you and will help you.
The
keys by which you will be baptized today are real. The joy and hope
are real, and the promises are real also. The power and gift of the
Holy Ghost are real, and they are yours as you are baptized and
confirmed a member of your Heavenly Father’s church here on the
earth. We are all here for you as well, as fellow Saints.
Marian J. Stoddard was born in Washington, D.C., and grew up in its Maryland suburbs. Her
father grew up in Carson City, Nevada, and her mother in Salt Lake City, so she was always
partly a Westerner at heart, and she ended up raising her family in Washington State. Her family
took road trips all over the United States and Canada, so there were lots of adventures.
The adventures of music, literature, and art were also valued and pursued. Playing tourist always
included the local museums as well as historical sites and places of natural beauty. Discussions
at home, around the dinner table or working in the kitchen, could cover politics, philosophy, or
poetry, with the perspective of the gospel underlying all. Words and ideas, and testimony and
service, were the family currency.
Marian graduated from Winston Churchill High School in Potomac, Maryland, and attended the
University of Utah as the recipient of the Ralph Hardy Memorial Scholarship, where she was
graduated with honors, receiving a B.A. in English. She also met the love of her life, a law
student, three weeks after her arrival; she jokes that she had to marry him because her mother
always wanted a tenor in the family. (She sings second soprano.) They were married two years
later and have six children and six grandchildren (so far). She treasures her family, her friends,
and her opportunities to serve.
Visit Marian at her blog, greaterthansparrows. You can contact her at
bloggermarian@gmail.com.
Marian and her husband live in Tacoma, Washington. Together they teach those who are
preparing to go to the temple for the first time, and she also teaches a Stake Relief Society
Institute class.