For
various reasons, we are in the process of downsizing our lives, and
getting ready to sell the house where we have raised our family and
lived for over thirty years. That house was a blessing straight from
God when we got it, and now His direction is that the time has now
come to leave it behind.
We
found a little house to rent, single story, so much better for us
than an apartment would have been. One shock to the system may be
all I can handle at a time! Combing the listings for something that
we could live with and that would be within our budget was
discouraging. Then we were led to this place, and our application
accepted.
It
took some sleuthing to locate a record, but I discovered that this
house was built in 1902. That makes it a dozen years older than the
tall square two-and-a-half-story house we’re leaving, as well
as about half the size. But it has a basement (though no interior
stairs to it), which gives us needed storage. No counter on the side
of the oven for my crock of kitchen tools or drawer for potholders,
and the upper cupboards are very high. The kitchen counter is only
seventeen inches deep, and it’s amazing how much inside cabinet
space that means you don’t have, looking at that long
horizontal expanse. There is also a definite shortage of electrical
outlets — only one in our bedroom.
Nothing
works quite the way it did where we have lived for so long. That’s
inevitable, in any move. I can’t remember where things are or
where I last saw something I’m now looking for.
The
house is old and far from uniform. I am learning the topography of
the floor as it rises, dips, and tilts. If I had a marble and a
smooth floor (instead of carpet), I think it would roll in a
different direction from any place I put it down!
The
path from the front entry into the living room is a discernible rise
upwards; and there is one small definite hollow in the dining room,
just big enough for my foot to find it as I pass through, downhill
again, from the living room towards the kitchen.
In
a moment of whimsy in the first few days, I thought that one almost
needed to have “sea legs” to walk about, with the rolling
gait of the sailor automatically adjusting for the rise and fall of
the deck. Mine doesn’t move, of course. But I now anticipate
the contours as I move from room to room.
There’s
still a lot to do to unpack and organize here and clear out over
there, but we getting more settled every day. The bookcases are set
up and filled, the audiovisual systems as well. The couch is
comfortably familiar, and the living room now has curtains.
And
we have started to hang the artwork. We actually have more available
walls, as this house is laid out, for putting up our prints and
paintings.
My
husband carefully assessed the spaces, the sizes, and the
juxtapositions of style and color that we wanted, as we set up a
plan. The biggest simple wall was in the dining room, and I wanted a
particular watercolor, very large and dramatic, to hang there. It’s
heavy, and he wanted to be sure that he did it right, so he bought
two triangular hanging pieces for it: three nails go into each, an
inverted V, after you place them by measuring and sticking them on
the wall using the hooks. He checked for the studs and was pleased
to find that he could indeed center the painting onto two studs, thus
spreading out the weight while placing it where we wanted.
The
space was above a small bureau, so he pulled that out a little and
got out the tape measure, while I stood ready with a pencil. He
indicated the first spot, I marked it, he pushed the first hook onto
the wall and we stood back. Look good? Looks good — okay, now
for the other one. He measured up on the other stud to the same
height, I made the pencil mark, stood back as he pushed the second
hook onto the wall and said, “Wait, that’s crooked!”
He
said, “It’s exactly the same. What do you mean it’s
crooked?” but he stepped back, looked at it and agreed. How
could it be crooked?
I
said, “Maybe the floor’s not even.” We pulled the
bureau out completely from the wall and I stepped along the edge,
back and forth, and sure enough, there was a dip right there. He
couldn’t tell in his shoes, but I could feel it in my stocking
feet. “Measure it down from the ceiling,” I suggested.
“Who
says the ceiling isn’t crooked?” he sputtered for a
moment. “There’s no telling with this place.”
Well, I pointed out, the ceiling is what you will visually identify
with, and it should actually be straight. Measuring down from
the ceiling, he moved the hook placement and we looked again. It
looked perfect, and he tapped in the nails in each of the picture
hooks, and we carefully placed the back wire onto them and centered
the painting. Beautiful!
The
experience left me to muse that measuring from the earth is
unreliable, but measuring from the direction of heaven works
perfectly.
There
is a lot of noise all around us, of people protesting what’s
not fair, what should work differently, how they demand change
according to earthly, mortal, fashionable, social perspective. “Be
not conformed to this world,” Paul counseled the Romans.
True
understanding is found through revelation from above, not through
majority vote or louder voices from below. Too many times people are
measuring from uneven ground, but don’t realize it. When this
clamoring world and the Eternal God measure things differently, it is
God’s measure that will hold true.
Marian J. Stoddard was born in Washington, D.C., and grew up in its Maryland suburbs. Her
father grew up in Carson City, Nevada, and her mother in Salt Lake City, so she was always
partly a Westerner at heart, and she ended up raising her family in Washington State. Her family
took road trips all over the United States and Canada, so there were lots of adventures.
The adventures of music, literature, and art were also valued and pursued. Playing tourist always
included the local museums as well as historical sites and places of natural beauty. Discussions
at home, around the dinner table or working in the kitchen, could cover politics, philosophy, or
poetry, with the perspective of the gospel underlying all. Words and ideas, and testimony and
service, were the family currency.
Marian graduated from Winston Churchill High School in Potomac, Maryland, and attended the
University of Utah as the recipient of the Ralph Hardy Memorial Scholarship, where she was
graduated with honors, receiving a B.A. in English. She also met the love of her life, a law
student, three weeks after her arrival; she jokes that she had to marry him because her mother
always wanted a tenor in the family. (She sings second soprano.) They were married two years
later and have six children and six grandchildren (so far). She treasures her family, her friends,
and her opportunities to serve.
Visit Marian at her blog, greaterthansparrows. You can contact her at
bloggermarian@gmail.com.
Marian and her husband live in Tacoma, Washington. Together they teach those who are
preparing to go to the temple for the first time, and she also teaches a Stake Relief Society
Institute class.