"But Wait... There's More!": Unexpected Blessings of Family History
by Kathryn Grant
The
blessings of doing family history have been taught in the Church
since the Restoration: closeness to family, miracles in finding
ancestors, and joy in temple service. These blessings are true and
real.
But
as I’ve worked on my own family history and helped others with
theirs, I’ve discovered that family history often brings other
less recognized but equally powerful blessings. These blessings also
are true and real.
One
blessing is having more time. You’ll still have 24 hours in a
day, but you’ll be more productive with the time you have, and
you’ll see ongoing miracles. Errands or tasks will take less
time than they should have. You’ll go to solve a problem and
find that the Lord has already taken care of it for you. People will
offer assistance when you weren’t expecting it.
One
of the reasons people often give for not doing family history is lack
of time. But the delightful irony is that doing family history is
the solution to finding the time you need for it.
Another
blessing of doing family history is that it helps you develop skills
of mindfulness that will bless you in every area of your life. As you
explore family history records, verify names and relationships, and
build your family tree, your reasoning and problem-solving skills
will grow.
You’ll
become a better planner. You’ll be able to see connections
between things more clearly. You’ll learn to be more cautious
about making assumptions and to recognize unproven assertions.
These
increased mental abilities will improve your effectiveness in Church
callings, employment, family situations, and more.
There’s
another often unrecognized but supremely valuable blessing of doing
family history: it’s one of the best possible tutorials in
learning how to recognize and follow the Spirit. As you search out
your ancestors, you’ll often have promptings to look for a
certain type of record — say, a birth certificate or will —
or you may have a prompting to attend a family history class, or to
verify whether some information about an ancestor is actually true.
As
you follow these promptings and see them fulfilled, you’ll
become more familiar with how the Spirit speaks to you. Growing in
your ability to discern the Spirit’s voice will bring blessings
not only in family history, but in every other aspect of life.
If
you’re already doing family history, you may have enjoyed these
blessings whether they’ve been clearly connected to your family
history work or not. And if you have wanted to get started with
family history but haven’t yet, now is a great time to move
forward. You’ll be amazed at the blessings that follow, both
obvious and less so.
Kathryn Grant is a user assistance professional with a passion
for usability and process
improvement. She also loves family history and enjoys the challenge and
reward of building her family tree.
As a child, she lived outside the United States for four years because of her father's job. This experience fueled her natural love of words and language, and also taught her to appreciate other cultures.
Kathryn values gratitude, teaching, learning, differences, and unity. She loves looking at star-filled skies, reading mind-stretching books, listening to contemporary Christian music, attending the temple, and eating fresh raspberries.
Kathryn teaches Sunday family history classes at the BYU Family History Library, and presents frequently at family history events. For more information, visit her Family History Learning Resources page