In
one of my favorite Christmas movies, “A Season for Miracles,”
Emilie is talking to Mitch, the mechanic who’s fixing her old
broken-down car. Anxious to get the car back and be on her way, she
tells him, “It doesn’t have to be perfect—it just
has to start and go.”
Mitch
replies with a smile, “There’s a lot that goes into that
‘start-and-go’ business.”
In
2015, FamilySearch began emphasizing a new approach to help members
become more involved in family history. You may have heard of it:
“Find, Take Teach.” Find your own family names, take them
to the temple, and then teach others to do the same.
The
approach is memorable and brilliantly simple. Start and go. But as we
put that approach into practice, there’s a risk of
oversimplifying or assuming we see the whole picture when we really
don’t.
In
this case, a key aspect that is sometimes overlooked is the process
of learning how to find valid family names in the first place.
Learning is implied in the find-take-teach cycle, of course—the
person who finds, takes, and then teaches others is presumed to have
learned correct principles themselves. But that doesn’t always
happen.
So
how can we be sure we’ve learned adequately in order to find,
take, and teach?
Expand
your knowledge with the many
learning resources available on FamilySearch.org and other sites.
Most
importantly, pray for guidance, then follow the promptings you
receive from the Holy Ghost.
The
links above lead to past columns. So, you might ask, why are they
being repeated? Because the myth is still alive and well that
“finding names” means nothing more than clicking green
temple icons in Family Tree.
I’ve
noticed at least two reasons that this myth is perpetuated: 1) People
who’ve been taught this myth believe it is true. With the best
of intentions they pass it on to others. 2) Occasionally people who
recognize the myth are afraid that if they teach correct principles,
people will think family history is “too hard.” So they
conclude that it’s better to make family history look simpler
than it is so that people will at least be involved.
But
the fear expressed in the second point doesn’t match my
experience. As I’ve mentored people starting in family history,
most of them want to put the effort into learning how to find valid
names. Then they’re able to find, take, and teach.
Finding
valid names for temple work is not hard, but takes understanding and
a bit more effort than just clicking a green temple icon in Family
Tree.
Think
how you would feel if you were the one on the other side waiting for
your work to be done, while people did repeat work for others because
they didn’t carefully clear ordinances. Our family members on
the other side are real people with feelings, needs, hopes and
desires to progress. We treat ordinances for the living with great
care and respect, making sure things are in order before the
ordinance is performed. Why should we be any less careful with
ordinances for those on the other side?
My
brother-in-law John observed that our time is a consecrated—and
limited—resource. The number of those needing temple ordinances
on the other side is vast. Let’s use our sacred time to best
advantage, making the investment to learn how to find names that
really need temple work. Then we can effectively hasten the work of
salvation as we find, take, and teach.
Kathryn Grant is a user assistance professional with a passion
for usability and process
improvement. She also loves family history and enjoys the challenge and
reward of building her family tree.
As a child, she lived outside the United States for four years because of her father's job. This experience fueled her natural love of words and language, and also taught her to appreciate other cultures.
Kathryn values gratitude, teaching, learning, differences, and unity. She loves looking at star-filled skies, reading mind-stretching books, listening to contemporary Christian music, attending the temple, and eating fresh raspberries.
Kathryn teaches Sunday family history classes at the BYU Family History Library, and presents frequently at family history events. For more information, visit her Family History Learning Resources page