"We seldom get into trouble when we speak softly. It is only when we raise our voices that the sparks fly and tiny molehills become great mountains of contention."
One
of my favorite New Testament stories is of a man afflicted with
palsy. Smith’s Bible Dictionary
tells us palsy is "the loss of sensation or the power of motion,
or both, in any part of the body." His condition was apparently
so serious that he was bedridden. We can imagine how hard this
affliction would have been to bear.
The
man had four faithful friends who carried him on a couch to see
Jesus. A crowd had gathered at the home where Jesus was, to hear Him
preach. And it must have been quite a crowd — "many were
gathered together, insomuch that there was no room to receive them,
no, not so much as about the door." (Mark 2:2.)
When
the friends got there, they couldn't even get close to Jesus to ask
Him to help the suffering man.
In
my mind's eye, I can see the friends asking themselves, "What do
we do now?" They were so close, but not close enough. I can
imagine them thinking, discussing, asking "What if?"
And
then they came up with a plan: "And when they could not find by
what way they might bring him in because of the multitude, they went
upon the housetop, and let him down through the tiling with his couch
into the midst before Jesus." (Luke 5:19.)
Jesus'
initial response was, perhaps, unexpected: When He “saw their
faith,” he did not immediately bless the man with physical
health, but said instead, “Son, thy sins be forgiven thee.”
(Mark 2:5.)
Then,
after a short discussion with some unbelieving scribes, He said to
the man, "I say unto thee, Arise, and take up thy bed, and go
thy way into thine house. And immediately he arose, took up the bed,
and went forth before them all; insomuch that they were all amazed,
and glorified God." (Mark 4:11-12.)
I
love a number of things about this account:
It’s a wonderful
illustration of the power of friendship. The four friends cared
enough to carry their friend some distance, on his couch, to seek
healing for him.
It demonstrates
determination. The friends looked for solutions and found a way
instead of finding an excuse.
It shows the power of
creativity. The friends saw beyond the obvious to get help for their
friend.
It describes how friends
bring other friends to the Savior for healing. The scriptures tell
us that the Savior saw their faith, not just his (the
afflicted man's) faith.
It highlights the
importance of spiritual wellness in addition to physical wellness:
Jesus forgave the man's sins before lifting his physical
affliction.
It teaches how faith
enables divine blessings.
This
account encourages me when I’m trying to achieve a worthy goal.
There is a caveat, though: I've found that I can get very persistent
about a goal that I want, but that turns out not to be in line with
the Lord's will.
In
any endeavor, we need to do all we can to align our will with God's.
Then we can exercise faith, avoid giving up, and find creative ways
to accomplish worthy goals and bless the lives of others.
Kathryn Grant is a user assistance professional with a passion
for usability and process
improvement. She also loves family history and enjoys the challenge and
reward of building her family tree.
As a child, she lived outside the United States for four years because of her father's job. This experience fueled her natural love of words and language, and also taught her to appreciate other cultures.
Kathryn values gratitude, teaching, learning, differences, and unity. She loves looking at star-filled skies, reading mind-stretching books, listening to contemporary Christian music, attending the temple, and eating fresh raspberries.
Kathryn teaches Sunday family history classes at the BYU Family History Library, and presents frequently at family history events. For more information, visit her Family History Learning Resources page