Help from the Scriptures When Answers Don't Seem to Come
by Kathryn Grant
Have
you ever prayed for guidance or help, only to receive no discernible
answer? This situation can be one of the most challenging aspects of
our mortal journey. But there’s something we can always do at
times like these: turn to the scriptures. Here are three scriptural
principles that are particularly helpful when answers don’t
seem to come.
Principle
1: We may already have the help or answer we need and just not
realize it.
“They
that be with us are more than they that be with them.”
(2 Kings 6:16)
Remember
Elisha’s frightened young companion who saw the enemy armies
approaching, and cried, “Alas, my master, how shall we do?”
In answer to Elisha’s prayer, the young man’s eyes were
opened, and he saw “the mountain was full of horses and
chariots of fire round about Elisha.” (2 Kings 6:17)
Just
because we can’t see the help doesn’t mean it isn’t
there. If we ask the Lord to open our eyes, we may find assistance we
hadn’t seen before.
Oliver
Cowdery once prayed for a witness and was told he had already
received one. My sister had an interesting experience along these
lines. She was working on family history and felt stumped. She prayed
and prayed for help, but didn’t seem to get an answer. Then she
realized that she hadn’t acted on a prompting she had already
received. Once she did that, the way opened before her and she began
to make progress again.
Principle
2: We may still need to prepare ourselves to receive the answer.
Sometimes
we need to ask ourselves a hard question: If I got an answer I didn’t
like, would I still be obedient?
Just
after Lehi and his family left Jerusalem, the city was conquered by
the Babylonian king Nebuchadnezzar. A remnant of frightened Jews
asked the prophet Jeremiah to pray to the Lord to find out what they
should do (Jeremiah 42:2 – 3).
The people promised that no matter what, they would obey the voice of
the Lord through Jeremiah (Jeremiah 42:6).
However,
when Jeremiah came back with an answer they didn’t like, they
accused him of “speaking falsely” (Jeremiah 43:2)
and they refused to follow his counsel. As a result, they gave up the
Lord’s blessing and protection, and instead chose a path that
led to sword, famine, and pestilence (Jeremiah 42:22).
Before
we pray, it’s worth asking ourselves if we’re truly open
to the Lord’s guidance. If we find we aren’t, we may need
to humble our hearts so we’re willing to accept the help we’re
praying for — even if it isn’t what we’re
expecting.
Principle
3: There may be a greater purpose at work.
“I
am glad for your sakes that I was not there.”
(John 11:15)
When
the Savior received word of His dear friend Lazarus’ death, His
response was probably surprising for those who were with Him: “I
am glad for your sakes that I was not there.” What? Glad He was
not there to heal His friend and prevent him from dying?
But
Jesus explained the reason for His delay: “to the intent that
ye may believe.” There was something important to be
accomplished through Lazarus’ death, something that would
underscore the Savior’s divine power and teach us more about
His ways. The disappointment of Lazarus’ death was just a small
part of the greater triumphant story.
God
loves you to a depth and completeness you cannot conceive of in your
mortal state. Indeed, were you to know His entire plan, you would
never ask for that which is contrary to it even though your feelings
tempt you to do so.... We can accept His will with peace and
assurance, confident that His infinite wisdom surpasses our own
ability to comprehend fully His plan as it unfolds a piece at a time.
The
One who said He would never leave or forsake us (Hebrews 13:5)
keeps that promise, and one way He does so is through the scriptures.
When answers don’t seem to come, we can find comfort and
guidance there, and even the very answers we seek.
Kathryn Grant is a user assistance professional with a passion
for usability and process
improvement. She also loves family history and enjoys the challenge and
reward of building her family tree.
As a child, she lived outside the United States for four years because of her father's job. This experience fueled her natural love of words and language, and also taught her to appreciate other cultures.
Kathryn values gratitude, teaching, learning, differences, and unity. She loves looking at star-filled skies, reading mind-stretching books, listening to contemporary Christian music, attending the temple, and eating fresh raspberries.
Kathryn teaches Sunday family history classes at the BYU Family History Library, and presents frequently at family history events. For more information, visit her Family History Learning Resources page