Sometimes
we create our own barriers to spiritual experiences.
Many
people, including some Latter-day Saints, struggle with the notion
that God would or could answer individual prayers, especially those
dealing with seemingly trivial topics like a lost object or getting
food when we are hungry.
Influential
circles of intellectuals spread waves of mockery when someone dares
to share an experience involving a small blessing in which they felt
that God helped them find food or car keys or some other thing they
needed, for such alleged miracles are insulting to the collective
intelligence of the Wise and Cynical Ones.
These
Wise and Cynical Ones (I will resist the temptation to use the
abbreviation, WaCOs) point their fingers at the Big Problems of the
world, all the suffering, war, hunger, climate change, and poverty,
and find their collective intelligence insulted to think that God
would ignore their list of issues while reaching down to help some
individual Christian widow find her cat or help a hungry Mormon
student find a quarter to buy some chicken.
How
can God answer these petty personal prayers and provide trivial
miracles when there are gaping global needs still unmet? The appeal
to cynicism is draped in robes of justice: How can a just God ignore
the big problems and provide little miracles to some random
individual?
To
even share such a story in their mind is to suggest that the
recipient of the miracle is somehow more important than all the
victims of social injustice and other wrongs seemingly ignored by
Deity. Burdened with such radical expectations and marvelously opaque
blinders, the Wise and Cynical Ones not only cannot see the many
evidences for a loving, personal God in the midst of the pains of
mortality, they recoil with anger at those who bear witness of His
mercy and kindness, especially when it involves personal answer to
prayer and small miracles of help.
A
recent classic example of this involves the
story from Elder J. Devn Cornish
in which he shared how the Lord helped him at a hungry time in his
life to find a quarter in order to buy some chicken. When one is
involved so deeply in service and professional demands that finding
opportunities to eat enough becomes a challenge, and when one’s
personal hunger becomes a barrier to effectiveness, the prayer “give
us this day our daily bread” becomes a meaningful plea for
truly needed help, and a prayer for means to continue to be effective
in one’s personal ministry.
How
he approached the problem and how the Lord kindly helped him should
give us food for thought. However, howling and mockery were the
result among some so-called intellectuals, even among some good LDS
people, who felt that the story was insulting and inconsiderate of
all those who starve and suffer in poverty.
Elder
Cornish, contrary to the accusations of the cynical, is a genuine
intellectual acquainted with the realities of life and death. He is
one of the world's great innovators in rescuing premature infants,
and has dealt with the life and death struggles of these precious
beings and the tears of their families for decades. He is as nuanced
in the brutal realities of life as anyone I have ever met.
He
was my bishop when I lived in Atlanta, where I served first as a
Young Men president and then a first counselor in the bishopric with
him. He is one of the most inspiring and intellectual men I know. The
mocking of the antis and of some of the Saints regarding his story of
the chicken is simply pathetic. It's a story that can teach us much,
and is nothing to be ashamed of.
May
we all have the faith and the humility to recognize the willingness
of the Lord to help us even in the small things, and to recognize His
hand and thank Him for those blessings, even when they are as small
and simple as giving us this day our daily bread, or chicken.
The
skeptical attitude that mocks or at least reflexively questions
specific minor miracles like the one reported by Elder Cornish seems
reasonable, but its effect may be to cast a critical light at
personal prayer, to trivialize it, and ultimately to teach a man
"that he must not pray" (2
Nephi 32:8),
a teaching which the Book of Mormon identifies as one of the
Adversary's main doctrines.
The
Lord, on the other hand, implores us to turn to Him daily and to cry
unto Him not just about the big things like war and world peace, but
also over the small things in our lives. The Lord's prayer teaches us
to make our daily, personal needs part of our prayers: "Give us
this day our daily bread."
That
helps us recognize that we are dependent on God and His blessings,
even His miracles, for our sustenance. Do we recognize what a miracle
and blessing a good slice of bread is? Are we grateful for this and
see it as a blessing from Him, even when we appear to have earned the
money that purchased it?
The
Book of Mormon also teaches us to make our daily personal issues a
subject for prayer, as we read in Alma 34:
24
Cry unto him over the crops of your fields, that ye may prosper in
them.
25
Cry over the flocks of your fields, that they may increase.
26
But this is not all; ye must pour out your souls in your closets, and
your secret places, and in your wilderness.
27
Yea, and when you do not cry unto the Lord, let your hearts be full,
drawn out in prayer unto him continually for your welfare, and also
for the welfare of those who are around you.
It
is in such small things that some of the clearest miracles occur,
where we encounter the tender and personal mercies of the Lord. We
must not let the existence of big problems crush our faith in the
Lord and in His willingness to guide us in small things.
Do
not give in to the mocking attitude of the cynics. Let us see the
hand of the Lord in all things and be grateful for each blessing,
even the small trivial things that He may choose to help us with if
we will let Him.
Yes,
there is suffering, and we need to do more to abate it. We need to be
more prayerful for those in need, more generous, more proactive, more
loving, etc., and that is clearly God's will.
But
do not let all those unmet needs out there cause us to abandon faith
in God, or in our ability to make a difference with His help. Nor
should we let it stop us from asking for help each day in our lives,
and having a heart full of gratitude for the small helps and even
small miracles we may encounter.
Jeff Lindsay has been defending the Church on the Internet since 1994, when he launched his
LDSFAQ website under JeffLindsay.com. He has also long been blogging about LDS matters on
the blog Mormanity (mormanity.blogspot.com). Jeff is a longtime resident of Appleton,
Wisconsin, who recently moved to Shanghai, China, with his wife, Kendra.
He works for an Asian corporation as head of intellectual property. Jeff and Kendra are the parents of 4 boys, 3 married and the the youngest on a mission.
He is a former innovation and IP consultant, a former professor, and former Corporate Patent
Strategist and Senior Research Fellow for a multinational corporation.
Jeff Lindsay, Cheryl Perkins and Mukund Karanjikar are authors of the book Conquering
Innovation Fatigue (John Wiley & Sons, 2009).
Jeff has a Ph.D. in Chemical Engineering from Brigham Young University and is a registered US
patent agent. He has more than 100 granted US patents and is author of numerous publications.
Jeff's hobbies include photography, amateur magic, writing, and Mandarin Chinese.