Reversing Our Downward Spiral: An Unexpected Solution
by Kathryn Grant
Several
emails I’ve received lately have expressed dismay and concern
about the state of our society and nation. We see “spiritual
wickedness in high places” (Ephesians
6:12), the voice
of the people choosing iniquity (Mosiah
29:26 - 27),
and the love of many waxing cold (Matthew
24:12).
These
concerns are compounded by feelings of helplessness. After all, what
can one person do, or even a group of people, to change the politics
and culture of a society? The battle is an uphill one, and the
chances of success, at least prior to the Second Coming, don’t
seem particularly good.
As
I pondered this challenge, I found an unexpected answer in a book
called The Message by Lance
Richardson. The book contains Lance’s account of his near-death
experience after contracting a severe infection following an
accident. During his experience, Lance was reminded that our nation
is in serious trouble. But he was told that there was something that
could bring our nation back from the brink of self-destruction. That
thing is service.
Service.
Simple, powerful, within everyone’s reach, and ultimately
life-changing, as Lance and his family discovered.
After
his health improved, Lance had an interesting thought: What if his
family went on a “service” vacation? What if they
traveled,
not for amusement or entertainment, but with the specific goal of
serving others wherever they went?
He
discussed it with his family, and despite some hesitation, they
decided to try it. They planned a two-week trip and set off with
rakes, shovels, and other tools they thought they might need.
One
surprising “tool” was a stack of homemade coupons that
said, “Sometimes it’s just nice to know somebody cares.
Have a great day! From _____” (the giver would sign his or her
name on the line). They discovered that these simple coupons had a
big impact on most recipients—like the deli worker who burst
into tears and said how much she had needed some encouragement that
day.
Once,
they stopped to help an elderly woman whose car had broken down on
the highway. Lance and his sons quickly changed the tire while his
wife watched the younger children play on the hillside by the road.
As they got ready to leave, several of the young girls gave the woman
some wild flowers they had picked. The woman’s eyes became
moist and she said, “You don’t know how much these
flowers have touched me.”
Lance
knew she greatly appreciated their help with the tire, but he sensed
that the flowers had touched her the most. This experience reinforced
for him the truth that each of us can reach out to others in our own
way and make more of a difference than we might expect.
When
Lance and his family got home, they didn’t want to stop
serving. Although the vacation had been an amazing, life-changing
experience, they also realized they didn’t have to look far to
find ways to serve and make a profound difference in people’s
lives.
So
here’s the challenge for today’s column. Find a way to
offer selfless service today. If you feel so inclined, make it a goal
to offer some kind of service at least once each day. Our combined
efforts could have more of an impact than we realize—for
ourselves, our families, our communities, and our nation.
Kathryn Grant is a user assistance professional with a passion
for usability and process
improvement. She also loves family history and enjoys the challenge and
reward of building her family tree.
As a child, she lived outside the United States for four years because of her father's job. This experience fueled her natural love of words and language, and also taught her to appreciate other cultures.
Kathryn values gratitude, teaching, learning, differences, and unity. She loves looking at star-filled skies, reading mind-stretching books, listening to contemporary Christian music, attending the temple, and eating fresh raspberries.
Kathryn teaches Sunday family history classes at the BYU Family History Library, and presents frequently at family history events. For more information, visit her Family History Learning Resources page