"We seldom get into trouble when we speak softly. It is only when we raise our voices that the sparks fly and tiny molehills become great mountains of contention."
My
brother Jay Thomas sent me a history of my great-grandfather Edward
Richins and Sarah Beard. It was a story of their lives in England,
and their conversion to the church and the long voyage to America and
then across the Great Plains to Utah.
It
has been several years since I took my own journey to find their
birthplaces in England. After I wrote my book Roughing
it Easy I
had the opportunity to go there to promote it in the media. I
traveled for two weeks promoting the book on TV, radio and
newspapers.
While
there I went to church in London. Before I went on this journey I
went to as many relatives as I could to gather all the histories of
my ancestors I could find. I thought it would be a wonderful
experience after my media tour to travel and find their birthplaces
and gain a better understanding of my ancestors and their life in the
Motherland.
I
hired a genealogist to go with me to find their towns of origin. I
had identified several of them on a map of Great Britain. While at
church I met Eldon Ricks’ wife, and she began to inquire about
my journey and ask what I was going to do now my media trip was over.
I told her that I had hired a lady to take me to the birthplaces of
many of my ancestors. She quickly reminded me of my travel skills
and told me I should do the journey on my own.
Here
I was in another country and not sure of myself. Driving a car
seemed like a skill far beyond me. They not only drove on the wrong
side of the road; they shifted the car with their left hand. Could I
really rent a car and set out and find my way in this strange
country?
With
much fear and trepidation, I called the lady that I had hired to go
with me and told her my plans had changed.
I
remember having such great fear for one day that I could do nothing
but look at the map where I had marked the locations and then tremble
in fear of what I had got myself into. At the end of the day I
mustered up the courage to call a car company and make a reservation
to rent a car. The next day I boarded the train and headed west to
Bath, England where I was to pick up the car.
I
remember it felt so awkward trying to drive on the wrong side of the
road and shifting on the left side, which was hard to get used to. I
headed out for the first place on my journey. As I drove around the
winding road, which had high banks on both sides from having the road
be there for hundreds of years, I slowly found my way to the first
town. I was so pleased to find the old church I was sure my
ancestors had attended.
As
I went down the winding road I decided I was on the wrong road. I
pulled into a farmhouse to turn around and as I backed up I knocked
down a big stone fence that I am sure had been there for hundreds of
years. My heart sunk and it seemed like everyone in the small
village came running to see what all the noise was about. My knees
were weak as I got out of the car and faced the farmer. All I could
think about was to see if I could figure out a good sum of money and
give it to him. One hundred dollars then would have been like five
hundred today. I pulled out the equivalent to a hundred dollars in
pounds and gave it to the farmer. I saw a big smile come over his
face as he figured he had made some money as the fence could be
repaired.
Weak
and tired I turned around and slowly made my way to Painswick where I
had determined I could stay. I checked into my hotel and decided
because it had been such a traumatic day I would find the most
expensive restaurant and dine in class.
That
night as I went to bed I learned that 26 of my ancestors came from
this little hamlet in England. As I went to sleep my mind flashed
back on the long journey. I felt great pride for making it through
the first day of my trip to experience the homeland of Edward Richins
and so many of his ancestors.
One
thing that we can all do is to gather histories of our ancestors. If
the opportunity comes that you are blessed to travel to their place
of origin you will gain new insights and understanding of what they
went through to make it possible for you to be here and enjoy the
blessings that you do.
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