"We seldom get into trouble when we speak softly. It is only when we raise our voices that the sparks fly and tiny molehills become great mountains of contention."
For church on Sundays,
the students in the London Study Abroad program are split between the
different wards in the stake. Usually it’s three to five
students to a ward. However, I am lucky. I have a ward all to
myself.
I don’t mind;
going to church in a city ward is an adventure, and, lucky for me, I
was able to request the ward my parents attended once upon a time,
when they lived in London twenty years ago — the London North
Ward.
It takes me an hour and
15 minutes to get to church. First I walk about a half hour from my
flat to a bus stop on Tottenham Court Road, flag down the bus that
will take me north, and, if I’m lucky, grab a seat at the very
front of the top deck.
From there it’s a
soaring sky ride through London, happily watching the pedestrians
below nearly get crushed by the bus’s girth and reading the
names of the shops and street signs as they fly past. I love riding
the double-deckers; I could ride on them forever, but eventually we
come to my stop and I have to get off so I can walk another five
minutes to the church building.
I was a little nervous
my first week because I didn’t know where it was, but I found
the building just fine, with fifteen minutes to spare, and slipped
inside.
The chapel was quiet.
They didn’t have an organ, just a piano, where an older woman
was sitting playing prelude music. It was mostly empty, emptier than
the wards I’ve attended in America usually are, and a few
people moved around quietly talking or finding seats in the
red-cushioned pews.
I hovered in the back
for a couple of minutes, my eyes darting from person to person,
looking for a face I recognized from when I had visited here with my
family two years before. Finally, near the front of the room, I saw
Peggy stand up.
Peggy is something of a
family legend. For as long as I can remember, my mom and dad have
talked about her, mentioning her in passing, telling stories about
her from when they lived here with her, answering the phone and
crying “Peggy!” with delight. Needless to say, when I
finally had the privilege of meeting her in person two years ago, I
was looking forward to it with much anticipation, and I was not
disappointed.
Peggy is one of the
most eccentric and engaging characters I have ever met. She is an
eighty-nine-year-old British woman with a shock of bright white hair,
a hunched, thin frame, and whiskers. She is mostly blind. She wears
a white visor that makes her hair stick up and a pair of the
thickest, roundest, most enormous pair of glasses I’ve ever
seen. Despite her blindness she has continued her career as an
artist, remains stubbornly independent, and has even joined a band
for blind people, in which she plays a little pair of cymbals.
I was so happy to see
her again. I had to tell her who I was when I greeted her, because
she couldn’t see me, but once she recognized my name, her face
brightened. She embraced me and then, clasping my hand in her thin
wrinkled one, proceeded to introduce her “young friend Michela”
to all of her friends in the ward, who generally comprised the older
population of the ward — but then again, there weren’t
many people around my age in the ward. Many of them remembered my
parents and were friendly.
I mentioned before that
the ward is small; it is. There were a few Americans and Canadians,
but the majority were either British or from various other European
countries. There was no organ, just a piano, and instead of having
three speakers like every other sacrament meeting I’ve been in
has, there were two speakers and two intermediate hymns.
When it came time for
Sunday School, the second counselor in the bishopric announced (while
several missionaries behind him set up a decrepit-looking TV and DVD
player) that instead of Sunday School and Priesthood or Relief
Society, we were going to be watching the special missionary
broadcast that had aired the week before. This was welcome news to
me, since I’d been on a plane over the Atlantic at the time and
hadn’t had the chance to watch it.
Despite some sputtering
by the DVD player, it was an engrossing broadcast, for the first half
hour or so. Then, in the middle of L. Tom Perry’s talk, there
was a loud pop. It sounded like it had come from somewhere in
the back of the room, but then a column of smoke started furling to
the ceiling from the top of the TV, bringing with it the sharp smell
of burning rubber.
It happened so quickly
that it took me a moment to realize what had happened. Then two of
the missionaries jumped up, one diving forward and turning the TV off
while the other unplugged it from the wall.
“What happened?”
Peggy asked me.
“The TV
overheated and caught fire,” I answered, watching the
missionaries wheel the still-smoking TV set out of the chapel.
“Oh, is that what
that smell is?”
“Yeah,” I
said. “You can see it smoking.”
“Oh dear. Clearly
the Word of Wisdom hasn’t been being followed,” said
Peggy sagely.
I tried not to laugh as
the second counselor got to his feet and announced that since they
had told the teachers not to prepare any lessons for today, church
would have to end an hour early. The six or seven children in the
ward, having been released from Primary already, were being captured
by their parents, while the three deacons that comprised the ward’s
youth program were coming into the chapel from where their Sunday
School lesson had been interrupted, exclaiming gleefully, “The
TV exploded!”
There was nothing more
to be done, and so after staying and talking with Peggy a bit more, I
finally decided that I might as well get home and finish the homework
I’d fallen behind on.
It was definitely
unlike any ward I was used to attending in America. The size, the
talks, the program, the spontaneously combusting TV — they
definitely gave me something to tell my parents about when I called
them that night.
Yet it was the same —
same organization, same hymns, same spirit. There was a comfort to me
in that, to know that no matter where I go, there will always be
members of the Church to take me in. Though they are few, their faith
is strong; that was clear to me from the light in their eyes, their
smiles, and the talks that were given.
Even though it’s
not what I’m used to, it’s different in a way that I
quite enjoy. I’m just grateful for this opportunity, the
opportunity to attend church in a different country. It reminds me
that the gospel just doesn’t change, no matter where you go.
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