"We seldom get into trouble when we speak softly. It is only when we raise our voices that the sparks fly and tiny molehills become great mountains of contention."
Like
many who live on the East Coast, we love to head towards the ocean to
escape the heat and enjoy the cool breezes and the sound of the waves
coming in to the shore.
Several
years ago, as we were driving through the coastal areas of North
Carolina, we stopped at the Wright Brothers National Memorial
in Kill Devil Hills. This contains an impressive monument to the
Wright brothers, and also an interesting museum where you can find
out more about them and their accomplishments.
As
we walked through the museum and looked at the displays, I was struck
with the amount of time and effort the brothers devoted to their
quest to master manned flight. There were dozens of notebooks
containing page after page of written notes. There were wind tunnels
that were built so that they could better understand air movement and
lift. There were more model wings and gliders than you could count.
As
you can imagine, Fluffy was in Boy Heaven. He could have stayed in
this museum for the rest of his natural life. I am only surprised
that there is not a Wright Brothers Memorial Graveyard attached to
the area — not for the Wright Brothers themselves, you
understand, but for all the boys like Fluffy who would want to be
planted for eternity in a place that was so near and dear to their
little boy hearts.
I
had forgotten about this until recently, until a friend published a
review of the new book The
Wright Brothers.
Although I have not read the book yet, I think the author also
uncovered the drive and determination that drove Orville and Wilbur
Wright to their success.
One
of their motives for moving their operation to North Carolina was so
they could better observe the flight of seabirds, and incorporate the
operation of avian wings into their own wings.
All
of this reminded me again how much work went into this effort. It
was nothing that was done on a lazy Friday afternoon when they had
nothing better to do. There was a whole lot of planning. There was
a whole lot of thought. There was a whole lot of trial and error.
There was a whole lot of failure.
Sometimes
we get an abbreviated view of history. We think back to our school
lessons, and remember the Wright brothers as the guys with the
bicycle shop who put together a plane when they got tired of fixing
bicycles. As with most things, the truth is always more complex,
less exciting and much more work than the Cliffs Notes version would
have us believe.
This
is a quote from Thomas Edison, who was perhaps the greatest of
modern-day inventors:
None
of my inventions came by accident. I see a worthwhile need to be met
and I make trial after trial until it comes. What it boils down to is
one per cent inspiration and ninety-nine per cent perspiration.
It
took Edison 14 months and 1400
different experiments to get an
incandescent lightbulb to work. When I think of an answer I got to
one of my prayers once — “You don’t wait long
enough” — all I can say is that I am not in the category
of a Thomas Alva Edison.
We
need to remember Edison’s example as it applies to our own
lives. Getting an inspired idea is just the first step in the
process, and it needs to be followed by a lot of hard work.
A
writer friend of ours used to give a workshop called “1000
ideas an hour,” where he would start a conversation with the
audience about possible ideas for a best-selling novel. Indeed,
before the hour was over, we would have come up with many great
ideas. But ideas are cheap. It’s the other 99% of the work
involved that turns the idea into a success.
Fluffy
and I are regular idea factories. Here are just a few of our gems:
Book
of Mormon action figures. We only
needed five basic male figures, plus a female figure. With changing
costumes, they could be adapted to fill the roles of all the
characters in the Book of Mormon. We figured they’d be a lot
better for kids to play with than the He-Man action figures that kids
were playing with in sacrament meeting at the time (now that
tells you how old this idea was!).
Botchie
beans. My mother’s caretaker
when she was young (her mother was deceased) was a little old lady
who made the world’s best baked beans. Before the advent of
Bush’s baked beans, we tried to figure out a way to market
Botchie beans. Botchie beans are still far better than anything
Bush’s puts out.
Italian
olive salad. Unless you have been
to New Orleans and eaten a muffaletta sandwich, you do not know the
importance of Italian olive salad. But if you have eaten New Orleans
cuisine, you want this stuff in your refrigerator at
all times. It is so versatile, you
can use it for everything. Heck. You can eat it with a spoon. It’s
that decadent.
We
have a killer recipe for this stuff. We have been thinking about
marketing it for years. And we have never, ever
seen it in the marketplace.
Until
last week.
Last
Tuesday, Fluffy saw muffaletta olive salad in Costco. Mind you, it
could not have been as good as ours because it was bottled and not
fresh. But one by one, we have seen our Book of Mormon action
figures done (not as well as ours), our baked beans done (not as well
as Botchie beans), and our Italian olive salad done (not as well as
ours).
You
sit on these things, and somebody else does them. That’s just
the way things happen.
If
we had ever been the ones to follow up on our ideas, Fluffy and I
would be kings, financially speaking. I believe I have written about
my idea for bottled water, back in around 1970, before anyone ever
had thought of anything so preposterous.
The
Mormon bishop entrepreneur to whom I took this idea told me I was
crazy. “Nobody will ever
pay for something they can get out of the tap for free,” he
said.
Shame
on me. I let his words convince me that I was an idiot. If I had
had the stick-to-itiveness of Thomas Alva Edison, the little town of
Mandeville, Louisiana would be rich and famous, and I would be raking
in the cash for my “Artesia” water. I would have an
elevator in my house to protect my feet and my knees, and I would be
riding in a car that would have been built in this century.
But
then, maybe I would not be as humble as I am today, and maybe
Mandeville would be overrun with obnoxious and money-grubbing people.
I’d hate to see that. I always had fond memories of
Mandeville, and the place probably got a lot better after I left,
even if only because I was gone.
In
the long run, God always knows what he’s doing. Darn it. We
may plead and plead for Him to give us stuff, but it just about never
happens. God isn’t a gumball machine where you pop in a prayer
and He dispenses a shiny new car or a million bucks. He just doesn’t
work that way.
But
just maybe … maybe if we pop in a prayer and do the work of a
Thomas Alva Edison, He’ll give us the rewards that go along
with the work and we can create the next generation of light bulb or
television or some other gizmo that hasn’t even been thought of
yet.
It’s
worth thinking about. And maybe thinking some more. And as long as
you’re thinking, maybe doing the requisite work, too.
Kathryn H. Kidd has been writing fiction, nonfiction, and "anything for money" longer than
most of her readers have even been alive. She has something to say on every topic, and the
possibility that her opinions may be dead wrong has never stopped her from expressing them at
every opportunity.
A native of New Orleans, Kathy grew up in Mandeville, Louisiana. She attended Brigham
Young University as a generic Protestant, having left the Episcopal Church when she was eight
because that church didn't believe what she did. She joined The Church of Jesus Christ of
Latter-day Saints as a BYU junior, finally overcoming her natural stubbornness because she
wanted a patriarchal blessing and couldn't get one unless she was a member of the Church. She
was baptized on a Saturday and received her patriarchal blessing two days later.
She married Clark L. Kidd, who appears in her columns as "Fluffy," more than thirty-five
years ago. They are the authors of numerous LDS-related books, the most popular of which is A
Convert's Guide to Mormon Life.
A former managing editor for Meridian Magazine, Kathy moderated a weekly column ("Circle of Sisters") for Meridian until she was derailed by illness in December of 2012. However, her biggest claim to fame is that she co-authored
Lovelock with Orson Scott Card. Lovelock has been translated into Spanish and Polish, which
would be a little more gratifying than it actually is if Kathy had been referred to by her real name
and not "Kathryn Kerr" on the cover of the Polish version.
Kathy has her own website, www.planetkathy.com, where she hopes to get back to writing a weekday blog once she recovers from being dysfunctional. Her entries recount her adventures and misadventures with Fluffy, who heroically
allows himself to be used as fodder for her columns at every possible opportunity.
Kathy spent seven years as a teacher of the Young Women in her ward, until she was recently released. She has not yet gotten used to interacting with the adults, and suspects it may take another seven years. A long-time home teacher with her husband, Clark, they have home taught the same family since 1988. The two of them have been temple workers since 1995, serving in the Washington D.C. Temple.