Recently Fluffy and I spent a lovely week in Williamsburg, Virginia. No, we weren't checking
out the sights in the usual tourist traps. We've done that many times because we are residents of
the state. We have been there so many times that we mainly just use it as a place to relax for a
week, prior to all of the activities of Thanksgiving and Christmas. We spent the week reading,
playing on the computer, and catching up on our DVD collection.
On one afternoon we were on our way to dinner, and we were in the rear of the Cracker Barrel
parking lot. We were in the handicapped parking stalls, where nobody could reasonably see us.
Fluffy had wrangled my wheelchair out of the car, and I had just settled myself into it when a
stranger came up to us and started his spiel.
"I am not a beggar," he said. "I am a draftsman. I have a job. My father died last week, and I
need to get back to Richmond to be at work tomorrow at 8 a.m. Our car is broken and we have
run out of money. I just used my ATM card to empty my bank account, but we are still $18 short
for getting the card repaired. Do you have $18 I can borrow? I'll send it back to you in the mail
when I get home."
Fluffy and I were hesitant. We live on strict budget and $18 is a lot of money to us. Although
we have been deceived before, this man looked like a good man,.
Just that morning, at the timeshare where we were staying, we had told the story of how we had
been taken in by a young man who was as smooth as butter and who cheated us
out of several thousand dollars in a timeshare scam. He has his own website now. He retired at
age 34, has written his own book and is very rich, while we, as you know, live on a limited
budget.
But on the other hand, the Book of Mormon tells us to be generous to those in need. Mosiah
4:16-19 says this:
16 And also, ye yourselves will succor those that stand in need of your succor; ye will administer
of your substance unto him that standeth in need; and ye will not suffer that the beggar putteth up
his petition to you in vain, and turn him out to perish.
17 Perhaps thou shalt say: The man has brought upon himself his misery; therefore I will stay
my hand, and will not give unto him of my food, nor impart unto him of my substance that he
may not suffer, for his punishments are just --
18 But I say unto you, O man, whosoever doeth this the same hath great cause to repent; and
except he repenteth of that which he hath done he perisheth forever, and hath no interest in the
kingdom of God.
19 For behold, are we not all beggars? Do we not all depend upon the same Being, even God, for
all the substance which we have, for both food and raiment, and for gold, and for silver, and for
all the riches which we have of every kind?
King Benjamin was a great guilt-inducer, wasn't he?
Fluffy had exactly one twenty-dollar bill in his wallet, and he was loath to part with it. But how
could we look that man in the face and not help him? We couldn't. So Fluffy took out his wallet,
gave the man $20 and our address, and sent him on his way. Then we went into the restaurant for
dinner.
As we were eating, I couldn't help but wonder why the man picked Fluffy and me, who were way
over on the side of the restaurant, rather than someone who was in the front of the parking lot or
on the porch sitting in the rocking chairs.
I asked Fluffy, "Do you think people are inspired by God to ask particular people for help?"
Fluffy didn't hesitate for a minute. "Absolutely," he said. "Don't you remember Dick Winters
from the Bonneville Ward when we lived in Salt Lake City? Fluffy then told me a story that I had
pretty much forgotten.
Dick told a story in church of how he was driving home from vacation and was on his way down
a particular canyon. Even though they were in no rush to get home, he kept getting the feeling
that he needed to drive faster.
The feeling got stronger and stronger, and he was soon driving as fast as the speed limit and the
roiad conditions would allow. Eventually he rounded a corner and saw a little old lady whose car
had broken down. He stopped to help her. 'Are you a Mormon bishop?' she asked.
"'Yes.' he said.
"'Well, it's about time,' she said. 'I prayed for a Mormon bishop to come and I thought you'd
never arrive.'"
It made me feel good all day that maybe -- just maybe -- the person who needed eighteen dollars
was directed all the way to the side of the Cracker Barrel to Fluffy and me because God knew
that Fluffy and I were the ones who would help him.
This reminded me of another story that I read recently. This took place a few years after the
Mormon pioneers had arrived in the Salt Lake valley, and happened to a man we'll call John
Jones (okay, I don't remember his real name). it had been a long cold winter, and most people
were running out of food. One day there was a knock on the door, and John opened it to find a
stranger there. The stranger was nervous and apologetic, be he explained that they had run out of
food. When the stranger had exhausted all of his options and had finally prayed about it, he was
told to "go visit John Jones and he will help you."
Even though John had limited food for his own family, he was happy to share what he had with
the stranger. He later wrote in his journal that he went to bed that evening with an empty stomach
but a full heart. He was excited that God knew him by name and trusted him to help someone
else in need,
Almost daily we read somewhere about someone who makes their living through the generosity
of others. There was a story just yesterday about a woman who was begging by the side the
highway, but then someone saw her driving away in an expensive car. But someone once said
that they were willing to be cheated 90% of the time, than to turn away that one person who was
really in need.
We still don't know if the $20 will arrive in the mail or not, but that really doesn't matter. It's
worth more than that to know that God sometimes trusts us to be His angels when others of His
children need assistance on the pathway of life.
Kathryn H. Kidd has been writing fiction, nonfiction, and "anything for money" longer than
most of her readers have even been alive. She has something to say on every topic, and the
possibility that her opinions may be dead wrong has never stopped her from expressing them at
every opportunity.
A native of New Orleans, Kathy grew up in Mandeville, Louisiana. She attended Brigham
Young University as a generic Protestant, having left the Episcopal Church when she was eight
because that church didn't believe what she did. She joined The Church of Jesus Christ of
Latter-day Saints as a BYU junior, finally overcoming her natural stubbornness because she
wanted a patriarchal blessing and couldn't get one unless she was a member of the Church. She
was baptized on a Saturday and received her patriarchal blessing two days later.
She married Clark L. Kidd, who appears in her columns as "Fluffy," more than thirty-five
years ago. They are the authors of numerous LDS-related books, the most popular of which is A
Convert's Guide to Mormon Life.
A former managing editor for Meridian Magazine, Kathy moderated a weekly column ("Circle of Sisters") for Meridian until she was derailed by illness in December of 2012. However, her biggest claim to fame is that she co-authored
Lovelock with Orson Scott Card. Lovelock has been translated into Spanish and Polish, which
would be a little more gratifying than it actually is if Kathy had been referred to by her real name
and not "Kathryn Kerr" on the cover of the Polish version.
Kathy has her own website, www.planetkathy.com, where she hopes to get back to writing a weekday blog once she recovers from being dysfunctional. Her entries recount her adventures and misadventures with Fluffy, who heroically
allows himself to be used as fodder for her columns at every possible opportunity.
Kathy spent seven years as a teacher of the Young Women in her ward, until she was recently released. She has not yet gotten used to interacting with the adults, and suspects it may take another seven years. A long-time home teacher with her husband, Clark, they have home taught the same family since 1988. The two of them have been temple workers since 1995, serving in the Washington D.C. Temple.