Among
the 1.2 billion people Pope Francis leads today, there are many whose
faith has been shaken by ignorance and uncertainty. Many in a Christ
kingdom who have been led by some leaders with dubious religious
authority are turning away from the ideals taught by Christ.
The
disarming way Pope Francis sets about battling to restore hope among
his followers invites comparisons. Pairing the pope with the man I
have in mind may seem far-fetched, but it will serve my purpose of
showing that a few good men and women can bring so much light in a
dark and despairing world.
John
Frank was a distant uncle. He served as an indentured laborer in a
plantation in Equatorial Guinea, an obscure island some nautical
miles away from my village in the cusp of the Bight of Benin and
Biafra. While there, he probably worked under the supervision of some
colonial Spanish gentleman or possibly in the home of one such man.
Upon
returning home, Uncle Frank brought with him some “strange
ways” contrary to our way of life. In my village certain roles
especially domestic functions were rigidly set aside for women. When
he breached these roles, he instantly became the butt of snide
village jokes.
These
became increasingly virulent as they rolled off vicious tongues in
our culture, where clever words can easily be as hurtful and cruel as
serrated barbs. Rather than observe Uncle Frank and learn from him,
most stereotyped him for muddling and bastardizing tradition.
“Fufu,”
a staple often made from yam or cassava flour (like most of our
foods), is traditionally prepared by women. When made from cassava,
the process is pretty tasking. Laden with cyanide, the tuber is first
shelled of its rind and then fermented for several days to ride it of
its deadly payload.
To
make it really fit for consumption, the now soft tuber is washed and
sifted to further extract the starch and completely rid it of
cyanide. In the process, cassava releases some very disagreeable
smells.
In
our male-ordered society, this disgusting but essential job is
reserved for disadvantaged, especially women, children, and house
helps. Men who do it are written off as effeminate. Yet Frank did
this for his wife and children. When he followed up with laundering
his wife’s clothes at the stream, fetching water, cooking and
doing several other things shunned by those who fancied themselves
macho, the gossip became virulent.
Some
said when they were making babies his wife played the role of the
husband. Others said he even carried the pregnancy, but only handed
it over to the wife to deliver shortly before the water broke! It did
not help matters that my uncle had a distended belly.
In
a culture where wife battery was common, it made the villagers mad
that he took it calmly when she talked back at him! Generations
later, however, many men would no longer find it too objectionable to
slough off some of their sexiest prejudices and partner with their
wives as Uncle Frank did.
Like
Uncle Frank, Pope Francis is an extraordinary man. His courage to
turn his back on moribund tradition and breathe freshness into
uncritically accepted norms has persuaded me to rethink my dislike
for popery.
The
way he rolls, this pope seems driven by an obligation to drain his
church of ostentation in order to connect with audiences the gospel
was originally meant for. He has startled many for doing what no
other pope is known to have done in living memory.
He
finds time to personally put a call through to distressed members of
his church oceans away from him. When he called a telephone operator
recently and introduced himself as Pope Francis, the poor fellow,
thinking it was a joke, retorted, “Yeah, and I’m
Napoleon!”
According
to Catholic rites, the pope on a Thursday proceeding Easter washes
twenty-four feet in a ceremony that re-enacts the humility of Jesus
Christ. Again tradition privileges men’s feet alone for the
washing, but for the tradition-defying pope, some of the feet washed
and kissed this year were women’s and those of other faiths
including a Muslim!
Not
only that, the pope as exemplar of humility and the simple life of
Christ, moved the ceremony from the comfort of expansive cathedrals
to a setting peopled by social outcasts — the Casal del Marmo
prison on the outskirts of Rome.
Hear
him: “It hurts me when I see a priest or nun with the
latest-model car. You can’t do this. A car is necessary to do a
lot of work, but, please, choose a more humble one. If you like the
fancy one, just think about how many children are dying of hunger in
the world.”
Preferring
his ministry be defined by what-you-see-is-what-you-get, the
pontiff’s actions mirrors the Lord’s instruction that the
most important servant in the vineyard “must be at the service
of others.” Pope Francis resonates thus: “We need to go
out, then, in order to experience our own anointing (as priests)...
to the outskirts where there is suffering, bloodshed, blindness that
longs for sight, and prisoners in thrall to many evil masters.”
The
Catholic leader spells out in deeds how and with whom members ought
to spend time and the urgency to invite all to come to Christ.
Matching
style with substance, the pope counsels his flock that, “Those
who do not go out of themselves, instead of being mediators,
gradually become intermediaries, managers. We know the difference:
the intermediary, the manager... doesn't put his own skin and his own
heart on the line, he never hears a warm, heartfelt word of thanks.”
Going
to the prison to minister to those at the fringes of society,
connects with the expectations of the man the pope prefers to be
named after. His namesake, St. Francis of Assisi, professed humility,
obedience and poverty.
According
to tradition this holy man taught: "Preach the Gospel always!
When necessary, use words.” While there is no certainty he
actually said this, yet nothing persuades more than action. Evidently
Francis of Assisi shunned the trappings of wealth and luxury, and
urged that Christian do what Peter said to do in 1 Peter 3 : 15:
“Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you
to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with
gentleness and respect.”
In
a crooked, perverse world aggravated by economies programed to keep
the poor kissing dirt, the pope’s gracious gestures inspire
hope. Hope, in folk Irish wisdom, “is the physician to every
misery.” It helps to see someone in authority speaking out for
the voiceless, touching them, showing empathy and joining forces with
like minds to make light their burdens.
Having
known suffering, seen bloodshed and blindness that longs for sight
and “prisoners in thrall to many evil masters,” one knows
in deed that the world lights up when powerful men and women step out
of the bubble to serve and uplift those bludgeoned by starvation and
helplessness.
Imo Ben Eshiet was born in Port Harcourt, Nigeria. Raised in his village, Uruk Enung, and at
several cities in his country including Nsukka, Enugu, Umuahia, Eket and Calabar, Eshiet is a
detribalized Nigerian. Although he was extensively exposed to Western education right from
childhood in his country where he obtained a PhD in English and Literary Studies from the
University of Calabar, he is well nurtured in African history, politics, culture and traditions.
Imo is currently a teacher in the high priests group in the Summit Ward of the Greensboro North
Carolina Stake.