Some
of the most troubling conversations I've had about religion were with
evangelical ministers and their devotees intent on denying that
Mormons are Christians. In their eyes, my personal love for the
Savior and my witness of His divinity counted for nothing and left me
as a pathetic lost soul because I didn't have the same definition for
the oneness of God, or failed on some other point of metaphysics
mingled with theology.
It
struck me as rather callous to dismiss someone's faith as unchristian
because of some doctrinal difference (if you don't agree with me on
doctrine X, then you're worshipping a different Jesus, you pagan
loser!), especially when the difference often makes us closer to
early Christianity than their allegedly "mainstream" sect
with its emphasis on post-biblical creeds.
Yet
their version, dating back to the 16th century, is somehow the
definitive standard for "historic Christianity," and those
who disagree aren't even allowed to call themselves Christians.
Even
Arius, the man on the losing side of the debate about the Trinity
that concluded with the Athanasian
Creed, was not said to be non-Christian for his allegedly errant views on
the Godhead. He and his followers, though condemned for a heresy,
were still recognized as Christians.
Such
courtesy is not available today in some Christian circles. You've got
to get a perfect score on the Great
Theological Quiz or you're not a Christian and will lose any hope of salvation.
That's
an exam you better start cramming on now because your soul depends on
a perfect score. Achieving doctrinal perfection may sound daunting,
but it can be done if you, uh, work hard enough.
Having
have some other evangelical challenges in the past few weeks from
people who sorely misunderstand our faith, I was wondering how to
help them past the simple caricatures of our faith that they tend to
get from their ministers (e.g., "Mormons try to do works to earn
salvation instead of relying on grace" or "Mormons obey God
to try to earn salvation; Christians obey God out of gratitude for
grace already received").
This
past Sunday, as I reflected upon Mother’s Day and my
relationship with my mother, I saw a potential opportunity to clarify
a common misunderstanding about the LDS perspectives on grace and
obedience.
Over
the years, my mother has given me a lot of commandments. Some were
very basic, like "brush your teeth," "do your
homework," and, "don't throw lemons at your brother
when he's standing in front of my china cabinet!" (Sorry, Mom!
Had no idea he would duck. I am amazed at how quickly you forgave me
after that fiasco.)
Other commandments were more difficult or
annoying. "No R-rated movies? But Rollerball just has a
little violence, and a lot of my LDS friends are going!" (I'm
grateful that I obeyed on that count, though. Thanks, Mom.)
One
of the most important commandments or recommendations, though, was
very easy: "You really should marry Kendra." Wisest
commandment/suggestion ever.
Sometimes my obedience was
driven by fear of punishment or desire for reward. That was in my
early years. But as I grew in maturity and in respect and love for my
mother, my loyalty and obedience was no longer driven by
considerations of risk or gain, but of love and respect.
I
listen to her and respect what she says and make sacrifices for her
not because I want something for me, but because I love her. She's my
mother. She's given me life and so many blessings that have made my
life wonderful. I can't repay her, but I can listen, talk, obey, and
look forward to being with her in the eternities.
God gives
us commandments. He teaches us with warnings and rewards. But as we
learn to love and follow Him, our repentance and our service becomes
natural, motivated by aligning our interests and desires with His
will, driven by a desire to be a good son or daughter of God, whom we
love and choose to serve.
We
are grateful for His commandments. Some challenge us, some are easy,
but we strive to grow closer to Him by serving, loving, and obeying.
Not because we are in some kind of master/slave relationship, but a
relationship of a child to a loving parent who has given us
everything, whom we can never repay, but whom we can increasingly
love and serve.
Jeff Lindsay has been defending the Church on the Internet since 1994, when he launched his
LDSFAQ website under JeffLindsay.com. He has also long been blogging about LDS matters on
the blog Mormanity (mormanity.blogspot.com). Jeff is a longtime resident of Appleton,
Wisconsin, who recently moved to Shanghai, China, with his wife, Kendra.
He works for an Asian corporation as head of intellectual property. Jeff and Kendra are the parents of 4 boys, 3 married and the the youngest on a mission.
He is a former innovation and IP consultant, a former professor, and former Corporate Patent
Strategist and Senior Research Fellow for a multinational corporation.
Jeff Lindsay, Cheryl Perkins and Mukund Karanjikar are authors of the book Conquering
Innovation Fatigue (John Wiley & Sons, 2009).
Jeff has a Ph.D. in Chemical Engineering from Brigham Young University and is a registered US
patent agent. He has more than 100 granted US patents and is author of numerous publications.
Jeff's hobbies include photography, amateur magic, writing, and Mandarin Chinese.