Two Worthwhile Books at Opposite Ends of the Spectrum
by Laurie Williams Sowby
Two
recent reads give voice to LDS members who may or may not be what
others consider “Mainstream Mormons.” Yet both are
legitimate reflections of the culture.
If
you’re looking for a sense of present-day attitudes of LDS
women toward practically anything, you’ll find it in Mormon
Women Have Their Say, a
collection of essays from the Claremont Oral History Project that
demonstrates how we employ our faith in grappling with life every
day.
(Claremont
Graduate University is home to the first Women’s Studies in
Religion program in the U.S.)
Editor
is Claudia L. Bushman, a hero of mine almost since the birth of
Exponent II, a modern version of the periodical heralded by Eliza R.
Snow in the late 1800s. Bushman has guided many grad student
interviewers in recording the lived experiences that have shaped not
only a woman’s life, but the lives of those around her.
For
this book, they’ve asked women how they incorporate the
teachings and lifestyle of the Church. Then, they listened. The
answers are as individual and unique as the women themselves.
In
a more scholarly manner than the title would suggest, the writers
have gleaned from the histories as they’ve examined LDS women’s
thoughts and expression on varied and sensitive topics such as
singlehood, patriarchy, revelation, and infertility. These women
speak frankly on how their religion informs their lives and vice
versa.
In
this carefully documented and caringly written collection of current
histories with potential to be “put to multiple uses by
multiples minds,” Bushman has observed “more individual
thinking and less conformity” than in the past. Noting that
many of the narrators here don’t ordinarily speak out, she
reminds us in the introduction, “Writing our own stories
empowers us.”
Hooray
for the Claremont Oral History Project for giving Mormon women
another voice (Greg Kofford Books 2013, 313 pages in soft cover,
$31.95).
About
as unscholarly as you can get and reeking with attitude is the latest
collection of Salt Lake Tribune
columns by Robert Kirby, once a beloved cohort of mine at a
newspaper. (He’s still beloved, just no longer a cohort.) The
Essential Kirby Canon reflects
“20 Years of Shooting from the Hip” in 140 pages (Zion
Book Works, paperback, $9.95).
He’s
still lampooning the Utah Mormon culture, but this Kirby is a softer
and more version of the one in previous volumes (and years). While
there’s still wry humor (launching bowling balls from cannons —
really?), there’s also a lot more introspection and
philosophizing (“One of the toughest jobs in life is to be
yourself when you’re stuck in the middle of everyone else”).
Deeper
threads are woven as he explores dressing the part for a pioneer
trek, his wife’s penchant (and his disdain) for vegetable
gardening, the essentials of an emergency kit, the dogs that have
“peopled” his life, and coping with “faithful”
members who see him and his Trib
column as a tool of the devil.
There’s
a tender essay on seeing friends lose a son to murder, and an open
letter to anyone contemplating suicide. The caring that followed a
serious car accident involving neighbors demonstrates the “positive
side to the congregational microscope my ward lives under.”
This
Kirby reflects a connection with humanity while recognizing human
beings — himself included — as unique individuals.
Laurie
Williams Sowby has been writing since second grade and getting paid
for it since high school. Her byline ("all three names, please")
has appeared on more than 6,000 freelance articles published in
newspapers, magazines, and online.
A
graduate of BYU and a writing instructor at Utah Valley University
for many years, she proudly claims all five children and their
spouses as college grads.
She
and husband, Steve, have served three full-time missions together,
beginning in 2005 in Chile, followed by Washington D.C. South, then
Washington D.C. North, both times as young adult Institute teachers.
They are currently serving in the New York Office of Public and
International Affairs
During
her years of missionary service, Laurie has continued to write about
significant Church events, including the rededication of the Santiago
Temple by President Hinckley and the groundbreaking for the
Philadelphia Temple by President Eyring. She also was a Church
Service Missionary, working as a news editor at Church Magazines,
between full-time missions.
Laurie
has traveled to all 50 states and at least 45 countries (so far).
While home is American Fork, Utah, Lincoln Center and the
Metropolitan Museum of Art have provided a comfortable second home.
Laurie
is currently serving a fourth full-time mission with her husband in
the New York Office of Public and International Affairs. The two
previously served with a branch presidency at the Provo Missionary
Training Center. The oldest of 18 grandchildren have been called to
serve missions in New Hampshire and Brisbane, Australia.