Stockton Passes Credit for His Success to Others in 'Assisted'
by Laurie Williams Sowby
You don’t need to
be a rabid fan of the Utah Jazz, past or present, or even basketball
to enjoy John Stockton’s autobiography, Assisted. New on
Deseret Book’s broader Shadow Mountain imprint (350 pages in
hard cover, $25.99), the book is every bit as much a winner as the
man whose story it tells.
Just from the
introduction and acknowledgments, I knew this was going to be an
inspirational read. It’s an LDS publisher highlighting the life
of a devout Catholic with strong family values, a solid work ethic,
and gratitude for his gifts and those who’ve helped his dreams
become reality.
Stockton played with
the Jazz for 19 years, becoming known for his skill at passing the
ball to those who could make the basket — a play known as an
assist. (Many times, the recipient was Karl Malone, who wrote
the book’s foreword.)
Here’s a telling
sentence from Stockton: “I have noticed that teams that enjoy
passing and like watching their teammates have success tend to be
good.”
He still holds the
career record of 15,806 assists. More than just a clever play on
words, Assisted pays tribute to the many people —
parents, family, teachers, coaches, friends, teammates, and others —
who have played a significant role in Stockton’s life and
career.
One of those is Kerry
L. Pickett, the man who coached Stockton’s sixth-grade and
junior high sports teams and provided him with “three years of
learning about basketball, life, and myself.” Pickett was at
his side as editor during the four years this book was being written.
“My success was a
collaborative effort,” Stockton writes, describing in the
opening chapter his surprise at being selected for the 2009
Basketball Hall of Fame and his extreme nervousness at having to give
an acceptance speech.
The story then
backtracks to his beginnings in a tiny Idaho town and goes through
school, college ball and a business degree at Gonzaga, an NBA career,
and ’92 and ‘96 Olympics, ending near the same place it
started, at the Warehouse, a sports facility he owns, runs, plays at,
and coaches at in Spokane.
Growing up in the
“Little Vatican” neighborhood where hard work, loyalty,
and thrift were shared values, Stockton learned lessons that would
bless his life and others’. The image of a skinny 5’6”
teenager dribbling around bar stools in the basement with the lights
off gives some idea of the kind of drive this kid had.
Standing only 6’1”
now, he describes himself as “a little man among giants.”
Acknowledging that he was “born with some gifts that meshed
well with athletics and specifically basketball,” he notes, “I
would have loved to have been 6’5” with a 45-inch
vertical reach… [but] Much of my success has come from hard
work…I spent many lonely Friday and Saturday nights shooting,
sometimes in a snowy driveway.”
His almost comically
conservative spending habits as an NBA player were also a gift from
his childhood.
Stockton’s classy
demeanor on and off the court was notable, and he speaks here with
respect for opponents and teammates alike. He recounts plenty of
memorable games and thrilling moments, including pivotal plays that
changed the direction of his future, yet the game seems secondary to
the person.
The book conveys
Stockton’s apparent and genuine love for coaches and teammates
from junior high through college and NBA and great affection for and
devotion to his parents, wife Nada, their six children, and extended
family.
There are also some
interesting insights as to how the teams and the game have changed
since he made his sudden announcement in 2003 that he’d decided
to retire, when it became apparent to him that his skills were
slipping, “teamwork” was ranking below the individual
interests of younger players, his kids were growing up, and his
family time was slipping away.
He makes a rare
political statement with his views on abortion (“The unborn
need a voice”) and makes it clear that meeting the obligation
to be a good parent “is far more important to me than being a
good basketball player ever was.”
End notes contain
asides and explanatory details, and photos add interest to the life
lessons Stockton teaches in this engaging read.
Laurie
Williams Sowby has been writing since second grade and getting paid
for it since high school. Her byline ("all three names, please")
has appeared on more than 6,000 freelance articles published in
newspapers, magazines, and online.
A
graduate of BYU and a writing instructor at Utah Valley University
for many years, she proudly claims all five children and their
spouses as college grads.
She
and husband, Steve, have served three full-time missions together,
beginning in 2005 in Chile, followed by Washington D.C. South, then
Washington D.C. North, both times as young adult Institute teachers.
They are currently serving in the New York Office of Public and
International Affairs
During
her years of missionary service, Laurie has continued to write about
significant Church events, including the rededication of the Santiago
Temple by President Hinckley and the groundbreaking for the
Philadelphia Temple by President Eyring. She also was a Church
Service Missionary, working as a news editor at Church Magazines,
between full-time missions.
Laurie
has traveled to all 50 states and at least 45 countries (so far).
While home is American Fork, Utah, Lincoln Center and the
Metropolitan Museum of Art have provided a comfortable second home.
Laurie
is currently serving a fourth full-time mission with her husband in
the New York Office of Public and International Affairs. The two
previously served with a branch presidency at the Provo Missionary
Training Center. The oldest of 18 grandchildren have been called to
serve missions in New Hampshire and Brisbane, Australia.