This
week I had to dig into some information about a company in northern
Switzerland, including looking up its location on a map. As I did so,
I couldn’t help but reminisce over my mission in the now-closed
Switzerland-Zurich Mission.
That
mission has been closed (I think combined with an adjacent mission)
because of visa barriers (see the
Dec. 2010 story in the Deseret News).
It wasn’t an especially easy place for missionary work when I
was there, and I guess it’s even harder now. Sure hope the
government there will back off and let missionaries return.
As
I looked at the map of Switzerland and zoomed into an area where I
once lived, I wondered how I was able to stand my missionary service.
It was wonderful, yes, and one of the best experiences of my life,
but some aspects were so contrary to my current tastes that I wonder
how I stayed so happy.
Food
was one of the issues. Cooking on our own, we really ate poorly too
often, and my first companion preferred that we skip dinner just
about every day so we could work more effectively. We were quite
effective, but often a little too hungry, at least for my tastes now.
Switzerland
has some of the best food in the world, but we skipped too many meals
and made too many bad ones. Thank goodness that I didn’t have
my current tastes in food. Other companionships left more flexibility
for dinner, but my first companion was terrific and probably the
ideal one for me, in spite of some of the painful adjustments I would
suffer.
I
also love to explore, to just get out and see as much as I can in new
places. Switzerland has so much to see, and I saw so little. We did
do some jaunts on a few preparation days, but I wish we had seen a
little more.
And
I wish I had had a working camera. So many memories lost. Today, I’m
a total photo fanatic and take hundreds of photos when I travel. Wish
I had a few more from my mission.
Another
surprise was how much everything cost over there. The financial info
I received from the Church with my mission call was quite out of
date, and I didn’t quite realize I would be going to one of the
most expensive missions in the world at the time.
The
amount of money it said to bring was too low, in my opinion, and I
would run out of money on my first day after having to purchase a
bike that would haunt me for much of my mission because it was way
too small for my long, long legs.
If
I were transported back in time to serve in that mission several
decades ago, without a good camera, without dinner every day, with
inadequate money, with a bike that was too small for me, and with
little opportunity to see the wonders of the land, I worry that I
would go crazy or AWOL.
Fortunately,
I was only 19, not yet set in my ways, and was genuinely focused on
what a mission really is about: serving others.
That
focus led to riches far beyond food, photographs, and tourist
attractions. It
led to relationships of joy that changed my life and my appreciation
of the Gospel. It led to miracles, growth, and learning beyond
anything I would have experienced just touring and eating my fill. It
was difficult but so worth it.
I’m
so grateful I went and went when I was young enough to endure it and
actually love it. I loved it enough that when given a chance to
extend my mission by a month, I jumped at the opportunity, and had
one of the best months of my life rich in new miracles and blessings.
Switzerland
was where I met Sophie, whose conversion made all the pain and
difficulty of my sacrifice in Switzerland completely worth it. I got
to see her in the temple toward the end of my mission with her new
LDS husband. A wonderful experience.
We
were blessed to see a number of interesting, good people accept the
blessings of the Gospel, and we could see what the Gospel did for
them. This strengthened my appreciation of just how good the Gospel
of Jesus Christ really is.
One
of my most important experiences in Switzerland was having a new
missionary companion unleash his anger at me and explain what a jerk
I was in my own slave-driving approach as his senior companion. That
was one of many difficult experiences, but one that helped me soften
a few things in my approach and learn to relate a little better with
people who are completely different, as we were in many ways.
I
treasure that experience, though, as a step on the path to preparing
for marriage, where being a companion with someone completely
different is one of the great challenges and joys of life. Tough
missions make for easier marriages, I think.
In
spite of a lot of bad food we cooked and potentially good food we
missed, the Swiss people and many Italians and other immigrants
blessed us with many great meals. Both members and non-members
treated us with much kindness, and I especially mean kindness in the
sense of food.
To
this day I still value the frequent and often weekly sacrifice of
several noble women in various parts of my mission who found meaning
in feeding us (sometimes too much meaning as they fed and fed us
almost to bursting).
One
Italian sister would spend hours before we came over for lunch to
prepare her killer lasagna. Her name is often in my mind to this day,
as are the names and faces of several others who gave us so much with
their cooking skills.
Those
experiences have made me more inclined to try to be hospitable to
others and share the gift of food. And they make me especially
grateful that my wife loves to do that for others.
I’m
not sure how I got through some aspects of my mission, but I was
intent on sticking with it and count it as one of the things in my
life that turned out better than I expected, and one of the many
things that turned out better than I deserved.
Switzerland,
I miss you and hope to be back again some day. Thanks for what you
did for me when I was there, and please consider letting some other
LDS youngsters into your land to have similar experiences in trying
to help those who need their message.
Jeff Lindsay has been defending the Church on the Internet since 1994, when he launched his
LDSFAQ website under JeffLindsay.com. He has also long been blogging about LDS matters on
the blog Mormanity (mormanity.blogspot.com). Jeff is a longtime resident of Appleton,
Wisconsin, who recently moved to Shanghai, China, with his wife, Kendra.
He works for an Asian corporation as head of intellectual property. Jeff and Kendra are the parents of 4 boys, 3 married and the the youngest on a mission.
He is a former innovation and IP consultant, a former professor, and former Corporate Patent
Strategist and Senior Research Fellow for a multinational corporation.
Jeff Lindsay, Cheryl Perkins and Mukund Karanjikar are authors of the book Conquering
Innovation Fatigue (John Wiley & Sons, 2009).
Jeff has a Ph.D. in Chemical Engineering from Brigham Young University and is a registered US
patent agent. He has more than 100 granted US patents and is author of numerous publications.
Jeff's hobbies include photography, amateur magic, writing, and Mandarin Chinese.