"We seldom get into trouble when we speak softly. It is only when we raise our voices that the sparks fly and tiny molehills become great mountains of contention."
Top 10 Favorite Conference Talks (Plus 2 Bonus Talks)
by Kathryn Grant
Now we have a world where people are confused.
If you don't believe it, go and watch the news.
We can get direction all along our way,
If we heed the prophets — follow what they say.
As
usual, a Primary song
says it just right. One of the greatest blessings of the restored
gospel is being led by prophets, apostles, and other inspired
leaders.
With
general conference coming up, I started thinking about past
conference talks that have profoundly blessed and taught me —
talks that are well worth revisiting. So here, in no particular
order, are some of my favorites, along with quotes from each one.
“Though
Jesus of Nazareth was utterly without sin, He walked through life
with a broken heart and a contrite spirit, as manifested by His
submission to the will of the Father. ‘For I came down from
heaven, not to do mine own will, but the will of him that sent me’
(John 6:38).”
“How
can the promises made to the fathers be planted in the hearts of the
children? How can the hearts of the children be turned to their
fathers? This can happen only when we understand our identity and
roles in this work and remain worthy and prepared to enter the temple
and act on behalf of those who have gone before.”
“There
is a difference between church-attending, tithe-paying members who
occasionally rush into the temple to go through a session and those
members who faithfully and consistently worship in the temple....
“The
fire of the covenant will burn in the heart of every faithful member
of this Church who shall worship and honorably hold a name and
standing in the Lord’s holy house.”
“Indeed,
we cannot teach [the Savior] anything! But we can listen to Him. We
can love Him, we can honor Him, we can worship Him! We can keep His
commandments, and we can feast upon His scriptures! Yes, we who are
so forgetful and even rebellious are never forgotten by Him! We are
His ‘work’ and His ‘glory,’ and He is never
distracted! (See Moses 1:39.)”
“Remembering
our spiritual feelings draws us to our Heavenly Father and to His
Son, Jesus Christ. It gives us a sense of our true
identity....Recalling spiritual feelings reminds us of who we really
are.
“It
is no wonder that over and over in the scriptures we are instructed,
counseled, and commanded ‘O remember, remember.’”
“The
central feature of pride is enmity — enmity toward God and
enmity toward our fellowmen. Enmity means ‘hatred toward,
hostility to, or a state of opposition.’ It is the power by
which Satan wishes to reign over us.
“Pride
is essentially competitive in nature. We pit our will against God’s.
When we direct our pride toward God, it is in the spirit of ‘my
will and not thine be done.’”
“I
am one of his witnesses, and in a coming day I shall feel the nail
marks in his hands and in his feet and shall wet his feet with my
tears.
“But
I shall not know any better then than I know now that he is God’s
Almighty Son, that he is our Savior and Redeemer, and that salvation
comes in and through his atoning blood and in no other way.”
“I
know why there must be opposition in all things. Adversity, if
handled correctly, can be a blessing in our lives. We can learn to
love it.
“As
we look for humor, seek for the eternal perspective, understand the
principle of compensation, and draw near to our Heavenly Father, we
can endure hardship and trial. We can say, as did my mother, ‘Come
what may, and love it.’”
“God
is not dead, and he is not an absentee landlord. God is not uncaring,
or capricious, or cantankerous. Above all, he is not some sort of
divine referee trying to tag us off third base.
“The
first and great commandment on earth is for us to love God with all
our heart, might, mind, and strength (see D&C 59:5; Matt. 22:37)
because surely the first and great promise in heaven is that he will
always love us that way.”
“Even
if you exercise your strongest faith, God will not always reward you
immediately according to your desires. Rather, God will respond with
what in His eternal plan is best for you. He loves you to a depth and
completeness you cannot conceive of in your mortal state. Indeed,
were you to know His entire plan, you would never ask for that which
is contrary to it even though your feelings tempt you to do so.
Sincere faith gives understanding and strength to accept the will of
our Heavenly Father when it differs from our own.”
And
here are the two bonus talks. Elder Wirthlin has such a
down-to-earth, relatable way of teaching eternal truths that it was
too hard to pick just one of his talks.
“Who
knows of what we are capable if we only try? The abundant life is
within our reach if only we will drink deeply of living water, fill
our hearts with love, and create of our lives a masterpiece.”
“Each
of us will have our own Fridays — those days when the universe
itself seems shattered and the shards of our world lie littered about
us in pieces. We all will experience those broken times when it seems
we can never be put together again. We will all have our Fridays.
“But
I testify to you in the name of the One who conquered death —
Sunday will come. In the darkness of our sorrow, Sunday will come.”
What
conference talks have blessed your life over the years? Share your
favorites on the Nauvoo
Forum.
Kathryn Grant is a user assistance professional with a passion
for usability and process
improvement. She also loves family history and enjoys the challenge and
reward of building her family tree.
As a child, she lived outside the United States for four years because of her father's job. This experience fueled her natural love of words and language, and also taught her to appreciate other cultures.
Kathryn values gratitude, teaching, learning, differences, and unity. She loves looking at star-filled skies, reading mind-stretching books, listening to contemporary Christian music, attending the temple, and eating fresh raspberries.
Kathryn teaches Sunday family history classes at the BYU Family History Library, and presents frequently at family history events. For more information, visit her Family History Learning Resources page